I was diagnosed in 2016 with CLL I had 17P deletion and 11q. Dame Deborah James was diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer the same year, today the news is full of memories of her life after her death yesterday. When I was diagnosed my son told my daughter I had 30 months. That was the historical data at that time. New treatments were coming online but no indication of long term benefits particularly for 17p, but I looked at it as glass half full, I needed treatment a year after diagnosis. Some 6 years later I'm still annoying to others and enjoying life to the full , in remission.
Hearing all the news about Dame Deborah is hard she was diagnosed same time as me and full of life. Cancer takes many forms and is unfair. Thinking positively doesn't guarantee we'll survive our cancer but it does mean we will enjoy our life.