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I’ve just found out that I’m pregnant I’m roughly 2/3 weeks? The reason that I’m not 100% sure how far along I am is because I had a little girl 4 months ago and my last period was at the end of February, I was due to have the mirena coil fitted tomorrow so because of that I’ve been taking pregnancy tests from March and they all came back negative until today, I tested positive so I’m in complete shock. I can’t really afford 3 kids right now and I’m so up and down about having a termination but then having 2 kids 13 months apart scares the shit out of me. Has anyone had a termination and regretted it and does anyone has children that are 13 months apart? My heads all over the place as I really didn’t want anymore kids. I’ve also got a 2 year old.

Tia

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I've personally known 2 people who've had a termination and both have massively regretted it afterwards. It may seem overwhelming with so many little ones close together and the pregnancy being unexpected but in time it will be a blessing if you can gather some help and support around you. All the best x

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