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Hi...just wondering if anyone knows how bekind is?

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Just wondering if anyone knows how bekind is after her operation? I know she was really struggling with anxiety and her surgery..

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Hoppity1

Hi Madge I checked with her on the morning of her op, she was very stressed I intend writing to her today I will post if there’s any news.

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Madge11 in reply toHoppity1

Thank you...hoping her recovery is going well. It's still early days,I'm sure we'll hear from her soon x

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Madge11 in reply toHoppity1

Hi Hoppity...still nothing from bekind? Keep checking the posts to see if she's posted anything but no...hoping she's doing OK. Thinking about her everyday.

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jeanjeannie50

Hidden we are all thinking of you and wondering how you are after your op. No pressure, but make contact when you can.

Best wishes

Jean

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Ageingfast

I too want to know how she is. Day four. Should be coming out of the anaesthetic.Colin

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Isobel1

Perhaps she hasn't had a chance to ask for her mobile back yet, especially if she's still in the ICU

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Madge11 in reply toIsobel1

Think it was about 4 days for me til I asked for my mobile..so still early days

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Isobel1

Same here . Had the op on Monday, didn't ask for my mobile until Thursday evening.

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Vicky12345678 in reply toIsobel1

Snap Isobel1 ... thinking of you Hidden !

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Retirement65

Hi madge thanks for reminding me about bekind just to say hope she is doing well everybody is thinking of her ❤️Xxx

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CBH192

I’ve been wondering too, hope she is recovering well!

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Hoppity1

Hi Madge I’m very concerned about her, I’ve written twice but no reply and we always answer each other immediately nothing else I can do except wait a couple days and try again!

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080311 in reply toHoppity1

I have been very concerned not hearing from her, thought we would by now.

Best wishes Pauline

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CBH192 in reply to080311

I’ve been thinking about her too! Hope she is ok!!

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Hoppity1

Hi Madge just repeating my letter re bekind I think the last one just disappeared off the screen I’m very worried about her as I’ve had no reply’s from her and that’s vey unusual, I’ll try again tomorrow. Ellie

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Madge11 in reply toHoppity1

Hi Ellie I Don't know bekind personally but having seen her posts recently about having surgery but struggling with stress and anxiety issues just made me feel for her. I've had the surgery and the wait isn't fun 😕 😞..of course it must have been far worse for her and I kinda been expecting a post from her along the lines of...hey guys guess what?? I did it yayyyyy and now recovering 😊. I keep checking everyday but still nothing. I will keep checking.

Nicki

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Barb6374 in reply toHoppity1

Hi , I also private messaged her 2 days ago and have had no reply. I'm getting worried for her. I'm really hoping she's OK and coping xx

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Hoppity1 in reply toBarb6374

I was hoping her husband would have checked her phone and sent a message on her behalf, I’m so concerned fo her Barb.Ellie

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Barb6374 in reply toHoppity1

It's 8 days now since her op , please , please let her be OK ❤x

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Madge11 in reply toBarb6374

It could possibly be that she was struggling so much with anxiety and became so overwhelmed that she didn't have the surgery...

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Barb6374 in reply toMadge11

Yes that is a possibility hoping we will all hear from her soon xx

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Hoppity1 in reply toMadge11

God I hope not that would be a terrible outcome . Come on be kind if you’ve seen this post put our minds at rest we’re all so concerned for well being

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Madge11 in reply toHoppity1

I hope not either...but I'm just thinking of different reasons why we haven't heard anything yet...

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Hoppity1

Hi Madge I don’t know her personally, but I felt for her and started sending her a private message which I feel helps it feels like a friend is trying to help. I have had a triple bypass and also suffer anxiety so I felt it might help as I know what she’s going through. Ellie

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Chickenlou

I’ve also been thinking of her and keeping my fingers crossed we hear from her soon

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