My lovely friends twin sister

[Chase888]

I was friendly with a guy and then he had 1 year and 10months of cancer but it caught him eventually.

His sister lives far but we are in touch.

One night she asked me if he ever hit me and I went quiet

She got upset and started to cry. I told her it was a one off and he was drunk. I so wish I had said no but she knew by myself not answering.

She called me last night and we chatted. She also said not to worry cos she knew he wasn't a Saint.

Her birthday is in January and sadly it would have been her brothers.

Any advice please on comforting her?

[GoGo_JoJo]

That's a tough one, although I think she already knew the answer and that's why she asked the question. Just emphasise the good times and good qualities whenever you can.

[Chase888 in reply to GoGo_JoJo]

That's what myself and his neighbour do. We have told her funny stories.

[kenster1 Volunteer]

like GOGO said you could put our your mind that episode and remember the better times and make it a great birthday for his sister one she`ll remember even if it`s just a small gift.