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How are you coping dear friends

I've been unwell for a while but I'd really like to know how your are getting on, please do let me know.

Chloe

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i had a week off work last week.went to the graveyard three times.had something bothering me last few days don't know how to deal with it.

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Hi kenster1 Kenny

Firstly, I'm glad you have actually had some time off as you've been so busy these past months but I'm sorry you've had something worrying you. If I or we can be of any help you know we are here for you, always.

Chloe

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In recent times my mind has been focused on the next few weeks. I've also been trying out a couple of guided fantasies to see what they reveal to me. Started a grief journal as well , but I've been very busy myself trying to get on with my life. Hope you back to sprinkle your sagely wisdom like pixie dust.... WB.

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How are you doing these days chloe40 ?

Hope that whatever is ailing you is a temporary thing and you will be back to your healthy self as soon as possible.

As for me, I, too am feeling a bit under the weather ... for me, it is more on the emotional pain side of loss and the ongoing reality of acceptance - then i get angry or upset when things don't change ... which, they won't - which gets me more upset again ... what a vicious cycle ! One I am continuing to figure out How To jump Off that 'wheel of pain' ...

Loss can really affect one's physical health, too - soo I am doing a lot of self care these days and keep working on taking small steps n getting out around others ... ha ... one would think that was an easy process !

Anyhow, wanted to touch base with you Chloe and sending you some healthy and healing thoughts as you work on feeling better, too !

in peace and joy to you and yours, realEyes (:

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Thank you RealEyes that's very kind of you, I appreciate that. I've had and still having awful nerve pain that's affecting my arm, hand and left me with two numb fingers, and it's really dragged me down, never mind.

Sorry to hear you're still suffering emotional pain but I'm very impressed with all you are doing to manage that and you should be proud of yourself. You'll find a way to cope, meanwhile {{{hugs}}}

Take care

Chloe

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Thank you for sharing some of the details of what you are experiencing at this time chloe40.

Pain is challenging - in whatever ways it presents itself !

Of what little I have learned about you from our brief sharing here is that you are a caring person and help many people in your grief work, etc. Thank You so much for that !

Sending caring n compassionate thoughts n pain relief your way chloe40 + to everyone else here on the Bereavement Care & Share Community ! from realeyes

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Thank you so very much RealEyes your thoughts and words are very much appreciated xx

Chloe

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