Is something wrong or is it normal?

[Daisy2000]

So me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex but every single time we try I end up stopping because it hurts too much to put it in. I dont know if this is something that i should be worried about or is it something that its in my head or I just need more foreplay. Help please?

[21jumpstreet]

Hi. If you’re a virgin or hadn’t had sex in over a year, it’s normal. Foreplay is good. But try a water-based lubricant to help. I’m certain this will ease a lot of the pain. Furthermore, ask him to insert slowly. Two min per inch. Eventually you’ll be much more comfortable to allow him to advance more quickly.

[toastkid in reply to 21jumpstreet]

Lube is your friend, especially if you're on the mini-pill because that is known to cause vaginal dryness.