Hi I'm a 21 female, just been diagnosed with warts/herpes tho I have had them couple of months and let them spread cos I was too scared and embarrassed to find out what they were! So stupid I know! Anyway going for treatment next Tuesday..Really nervous what it will involve?! How long will it take and how effective? Also anything I can do at home to speed up healing and prevent spreading? I am in a fairly new relationship with a guy that I'm crazy about and don't want lose him as worried he might freak out if I tell him! Any advise what to do in this situation? Like do I have to tell him!? What should I say!? We haven't had sex yet it's early days but things are moving pretty fast and don't know how to handle this...Thanks.