Hi

Welcome to this forum and thank you for your post.

It is difficult to answer your questions as all of the ataxias are different and people are affected differently. It is likely that your father's current symptoms will continue to progress but no one can tell the rate. It is possible his symptoms could plateau for a while. Your Mum and Dad must be guided by your GP and neurologist. However I would strongly advise that you contact Social Services for help for your Mum in providing care for your Dad.

I would also advise encouraging your Dad to speak to his GP and neurologist about his symptoms of dementia. Although you are absolutely right his symptoms may be due to stress and anxiety there are other things that present with symptoms of dementia and these should be ruled out.

Best wishes

Harriet

I'm sorry to be reading all of the above as I'm a full time carer now to my partner who at first was diagnosed with progressive ca 3 yrs to date but last June had another MRI and we were told he has msA please look this up ! Symptoms all sound the same it is worth looking into but still there is no treatment or cure and it is progressive it is awful as we struggle everyday he is on a breathing machine at night now and 3 wks ago had to have a bag fitted for the bladder hope you get help x

Both my father and brother had sca and there symptom started in early 30 and they both lost their fight mid 40's they both were bed ridden and unable to talk, my brother had a feeding tube, everything choaked him. So basically to answer your question it's the ability to continue moving and keep talking when those end life isn't very easy! Best wishes for your family!

Yes, my dad did have a feeding tube, his legs were amputated when he got gang green due to bed sores about 7-10 years after being bed ridden. My brother wasn't able to walk and was wheel chair bound for 12 years. They both were able to sit up while they were mobile but as soon as they ended up being unable to get out of bed they could not sit on there own.

My husband was diagnosed at 50 years old and is now 64, so in relation the same time span as your father. He has used a wheelchair for around the last 8 years, sight is affected, has a feeding tube and doesn't have any food or drink orally, his speech is severely affected and I usually translate to others. Has the Speech and Language Therapist (SALT) been to see your father? They will listen and feeling for the way he swallows and advise on the texture and thickness of foods to try and avoid aspiration, along with all the complications that brings.

My husband has many of the Ataxia traits, but is happy despite being in and out of hospital for most of the last year. We have Personal Assistants through the week and I try to ensure he does as much as he wants and encourage him to go that one step further, such as fishing and target shooting. We're still able to have a good laugh and find humour in lots of silly little things. Don't get me wrong it's tough and I have shed many tears, but neither of us will give up.

In answer to you're question about 'what terminal stage look like' in my husbands case I feel that would depend on which part of Ataxia is causing his illness i.e. Pneumonia with sepsis, urosepsis etc, I can't think of anything unique to end stage ataxia, but I don't have that experience therefore can't give a definitive answer.

If you're father does have dementia, then that a whole new ball game, I hope you find the answers you need.

I hope that all makes sense to you, regards to all of you, it's a hard fight, enjoy the good times and make as many memories as you can regardless of how long you may feel he has to live.

Hi angel cake

Your story is very sad but sounds a lot like mine,my hubby was diagnosed 8yrs ago with cerebellar ataxia age 55 he's now 63 in a wheelchair last 4 yrs wears diapers has trouble swallowing which worries me he uses a straw. His speech is very bad most of the time which is really frustrating to both of us but like yourself I say the wrong thing sometimes and we both just burst into laughter. It's very hard indeed wishing you all the very best.

pat

Pleased to meet you pat, albeit virtually, that was my fist post and Its lovely to get a reply 😀.

In reply to your worry I'm going to start a new post about feeding, so not to high jack live_your_live post.

Hi my brother in law was diagnosed about 5 years ago with ataxia, not sure what type, but the last year he has deteriorated loads, more so the last 3 months, has been wheelchair bound for over a year, he has took a turn for the worst this week and us in hospital now, bladder seems to be having trouble working and his breathing is very bad, I need some help in trying to guide the doctored to treat him, they can't seem to find out what's making him so unwell, can any one give me sone guidance on research please....it's heartbreaking seeing my sister and nieces falling apart. (He is only 55)

Hi my brother in law was diagnosed about 5 years ago with ataxia, not sure what type, but the last year he has deteriorated loads, more so the last 3 months, has been wheelchair bound for over a year, he has took a turn for the worst this week and us in hospital now, bladder seems to be having trouble working and his breathing is very bad, I need some help in trying to guide the doctored to treat him, they can't seem to find out what's making him so unwell, can any one give me sone guidance on research please....it's heartbreaking seeing my sister and nieces falling apart. (He is only 55)

Hi to make a long talk short, I was diagnosed with Epilepsy I felt that wasn't enough. I got my son tested and my self, he has ataxia and so do I. It feels like death and the electric chair also burning alive, I don't know about that it just feels that way. I got a Vegus Nerve Stimulator, it stopped the 150 seizures I was having a day I also don't calaps from ataxia. For the first time in my life I feel brand-new, I feel alive I feel like I was always dead and now I feel in my 30s I just appeared in this world. This feeling is more painful then my conversation trust me, I know how a dementia patient feels I lost my whole memory. They are scared confused, or sometimes clueless because they don't know who they are. Dementia can feel like a horror movie in a slaughter house with green light, and you're the only one on Earth. I am a little better, if only people knew that life, it's like a Night Mare on elm Street except this movie is reality it's you.