Good morning ladies just wanted some reassurance
I recently found out that I’m pregnant 🤰🏽
Tbh I wasn’t shocked about it and it was planned. However me and dear husband, decided to tell his parents last night. Tbh I didn’t expect the response we received. Firstly I know they are afraid especially with what’s going on around the world, however it was more so the fear of me becoming unwell again after birth ! They really empathised one this which made me quite uncomfortable. There was no congratulations, it was more so how you guys going to manage? Have you thought it through etc . Luckily I held my mouth and allowed my Dh to do most of the talking, as I was in quite upset with how they responded. Don’t get me wrong I get it their worried but at the end of the day it’s our life. We didn’t just wake up and say let’s get pregnant, we have thought this through I’ve been to countless of meetings and appointments with professionals who have given reassurance that I will supported and guided throughout this pregnancy. Lastly if all goes well I might not even develop PP the 2nd time round again I pray I don’t and I’m
Willing to do what ever it takes to look after my mental health.
If anybody has any advice please share
Thank you xxx