Choose.

[gerrerd]

A bit of info.

[Focusedmind]

I have a poster in my office that is one of your messages. I read it often and think it applies to your post above. (It also reminds me how to improve my relationships.)

Green Flags in a Relationship

1) They can genuinely apologize

2) They lean in and listen

3) They don't diminish your feelings

4) They take responsibility for their actions

5) It matters to them how they make you feel

6) They want to grow together and find compromises and solutions instead of blaming you or something else.

7) They respect you and make you feel safe when you want to express your feelings

8) Their words and actions align

9) They are not scared of hard conversations

Thank you, Ray, for giving me this message and many others!

[Hidden in reply to Focusedmind]

Good morning D lady 😁yes this is true in all relationships as you know I sometimes struggle at home in family I am a great listener tho but some aren't can't see there wrong and it goes on on I just say I know the truth and we believe what we believe, I walk away from discord when it can't be solved, friendships relationships can be hard work especially when people don't know each other that well, but life's about understanding each other learning there ways and showing empathy understanding, were all unique and different in our own special way, we can choose our friends to a degree but some like at work or the neibourhood or on here we have to try and work together in harmony, I wish you a peaceful day 🤗💛🌟🌈

[Focusedmind in reply to Hidden]

Yes, we all need to work in harmony, especially in real life, and also on websites like HU. I love the above message that Gerrerd posted a while back, as with so many of his messages, they are very inspirational!

Here it is good night, my sweet Pixie Lady! But you have an excellent day!

[Hidden in reply to Focusedmind]

Thanks 🤗you have sweet dreams 💛

[gerrerd in reply to Focusedmind]

Not being big headed, but I ticked all the boxes.😇

[Hidden in reply to gerrerd]

You forgot to add humble to your list hahaha🤣

[gerrerd in reply to Hidden]

If you,ve got it flaunt it. 😜

[Hidden in reply to gerrerd]

You'll be dancing round the pole next 😱Noooow please not a photo 😩😰😱😂have a good night gerr xx

[gerrerd in reply to Hidden]

May pole maybe xx

[Trainchaser]

Thank God I got all of that in my wife.

[Teaching]

You are right but sometimes they come in disguise and you may not find out until it's late.