good afternoon y’all

[Guitarsrcool]

Hey guys! Firstly i hope you guys are having a great day so far and that you guys have ate well, stayed hydrated and have a peace at mind.

I just want to vent out to you guys about how i’ve been feeling lately about my whole breakup thing (I know it isn’t anything you’d consider serious since it’s a normal thing but it’s affected me a lot) anyways i’ve been feeling down and up at certain times. when i’m at work i don’t normally think about her unless she comes into my mind. after 7 years of dating (which we didn’t see each other much because of her parents and a lot of other complicated things) we had very memorable memories. which i will always carry in my heart, seems impossible to forget about her so i’ve decided to instead learn from it. i know it might take a long time before i can say im doing okay again but i have hope. she left me and blocked me on everything which is fine i cannot control her actions but it really does hurt a lot. it’s like 7 years meant nothing to her. sometimes i wonder if she still thinks about me the way i think about her. i did reach out to her a couple days ago telling her i missed her but that just resulted in me getting blocked. i get it she wants to move on and it’s kind of difficult for me since my feelings towards her are very strong. makes me sad knowing i won’t have what we once had. although i did learn a few things from her and i’d teach her some things, i feel like i lost myself in that relationship. i don’t know who i am anymore sometimes and most of the times i don’t have motivation or energy to try or do anything new. which totally sucks because i’m pretty sure that’s what she’s doing and she’s doing better than me (here i am thinking about her again). i just can’t stop this constant overthinking and it sucks. i’m alone half of the day so i have a lot of time to think about her and just drown in my own thoughts. i have tried meditating before and it’s helped but i cannot seem to find how to do it correctly.

Sorry for the long paragraph but i just felt like i needed to vent out. Take care of your loved ones and don’t take them for granted because they might not be here forever.

Love you guys enjoy your day.

[LilyAnnepuppy]

There’s someone out there for you. This is just a glitch in the road of love. I don’t mean to minimize it. I am well aware of how much a breakup hurts. I spent many years in an unrequited love phase. It seemed as though I would never find a partner. But as they say, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” Well I spent many years staring at my watch. Waiting.

Walk through your grief a day at a time and you’ll eventually feel better.

[Dolphin14]

A breakup is a loss and with a loss you will grieve.

I'm glad you felt comfortable to write your story here. It's good to let that stuff out.

It's going to take time to move on but you will get there.

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