I have more road behind my than in front of me.

[LiviaRay]

anyone else feel that way about getting older? It’s starting to scare me.

[Agora1]

LiviaRay, don't be afraid in getting older. Many were robbed of that journey.

Continue down that road of wisdom and life experiences. The Speed Limit may

be a little slower but the journey can be just as gratifying knowing your purpose

in life is still needed. Enjoy the weekend. Welcome to this great forum.. xx

[Shantaran10 in reply to Agora1]

I am Greatfull for everDay.

[Roxylox]

I try not to think about it and make the most of the present

[Blueruth]

there are advantages if you look. I go hiking a lot and I meet retirees all the time that are totally enjoying themselves. I ask some if they ever get bored…nope!

[Raggedy-Ann]

I have a similar feeling but with a sense of relief. I am tired of feeling sad, pretending to be happy. I died once on the operating table. One thing that did for me was remove all fear of death. There is no need to fear something you have no control over; I control how I eat and exercise. I hope this helps.

[Sage16]

I am so sorry that you feel that way. I really hope some chinks or rays of light enter your days just a little bit or some comfort comes your way. Insofar as solidarity is concerned I do feel like that sometimes. I am also disabled and have chronic pain and illness so am ever more limited in what I can busy myself with to offset the feelings. For all the PTSD, anxiety and depression I eventually found walking for ever longer miles more helpful than even talking. So I do miss that very much. I hope it doesn't sound trite but the only thing that really helps me cope with the feeling you are describing is to try and keep everything in the day. Hope am making sense. Just to somehow, only focus on the day ahead. Sometimes to only focus on getting through the next hour. Easier said than done I guess but if achievable it can lessen or mute any thoughts like these. You do count and matter at any age.

[Isinatra]

Yes, I get scared, too. But my survival mode comes to my rescue. It’s still alive and kicking. I tell those thoughts that I don’t want to think about them. I’d rather worry about something I can do something about. Like should I go back to blonde .

[Isinatra]

I don’t know if blondes have more fun. I’ve never come across a credible poll on that.lol I do know that they’re discriminated against. Dumb blonde jokes. How many blondes does it take to screw in a light bulb. 🙄🤓

I totally agree. Aging is for lions….meow.

[AnonymousUsername13]

Definitely. Illnesses seem to bring out those thoughts more than anything.

[Weatherwoman in reply to AnonymousUsername13]

Agree that we (who are older) have more days behind us then ahead. And, as the saying goes, "Old age ain't for sissies!" I think that if you are dealing with illnesses, or that of loved one's illness (as I am), getting older is difficult. But, being grateful for what we do have, and the wisdom that comes with the experiences we've had helps (some of us, I guess). As trite as it may be, I just try to live each day the best I can, and that isn't always easy! Keep on keepin on~

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Life becomes more precious when there’s less of it to waste.

[Thankfulforhelp22]

Yes, I do feel that way sometimes. At 60+, do I have 60 more years, no way. I try to focus on the fact that I feel good now and perhaps a little bit younger than my age.

I also try to live in the moment which is a very real thing. Focus on things you enjoy and people you love. That thought will always pop up from time to time, but it is not worth dwelling on.

I'd rather have a birthday than the alternative.

Peace.