I have been dealing with this constant feeling of emptiness and that nothing matters for more than a month now. Not the first time I feel this way, to be honest I feel like that since I have memory. I know it goes in cycles. I know this will probably past too, but it gets harder and harder to leave these cycles once I´ve fall in one of them.
I´ve recently broken up with my partner and as I knew would happen, this turned my life down in ways that are not logical or reasonable. Since I have a childhood trauma that is related to the dysfuntional and unestable relationship of my parents, I have a unmesured desaire (and obligation) to make every relationship works, to prove myself that I can create something different from what I have when I was a child, however, I end up replicating almost in the exact way the situations I lived with my parents relationship. So when, once again, one of these relationships fail, I feel like a failure myself and nothing that I do, am, have, matters anymore.
I´m an overthinker, as all people with anxiety disorder. So to go over and over every detail of a failed relationship feels like a perpetous torture. As my anxiety picks I prefer to be alone, since I feel people may find my troubles boring and idiotics. However, it hurts to be alone in these times, I´m a very affectionate person and when I feel low all I want is the company of friends and love ones, but I realized, thanks to this last break up. that currently I have no one to turn to in these situations, so I spend my days with the computer and the tv as my only companies.
So I´ve been falling from heartbreak, to anxiety, to depression, deeper and deeper. I do therapy, take medications, journaling, read a lot, but nothing seems to replace the healing effect of a good friend by your side or just knowing that someone cares.
Maybe I´m over dramatic, maybe it is just the unbalance chemical in my brains, maybe it is just life, but I feel so overwhelm whit sadness and emptiness at the moment, that I needed it to share it in here.