When one feels they love someone so much, that death comes to mind as the only solution to separation, what is that?

[Amelua]

Is it really love?

[Blueruth]

The ultimate form of abuse.

[Lovesdolls]

My adult daughter says she loves me too much. I'm all she has...I see her point now. Not sure what extent this goes in your comment. And the dynamic? Family? Relationship?Friendship?

[live-2021]

MAY BE TRIGGER. !!!!!Please let me know if it's not allowed. Sorry

If you are talking about love for a partner, it's obsession. I know it well, unfortunately. My husband of almost 20 yrs left me, completely out of the blue. I totally shut down. After several months when it sunk in it was real, I decided I couldn't live without him. Even though I had 2 older children, it wasn't enough. My friend caught me and I ended up in the psych ward for a week or so. Honestly, even after I got out I still thought about suicide alot. My girls were the only reason I didn't. It's been quite a while and I still mourn our marriage and him. Not like I did though.

YOU ARE A PERSON. AN IMPORTANT PERSON THAT MATTERS!!!!! It's my thought you don't love yourself and you have to start. This love for them needs to be put into perspective. You can survive without them. I KNOW you don't feel that way, but you can. You have given this person entirely too much power. You need to realize you are your own person. You've got to watch out and take care of you. This is harsh, but in the end you're the only one that will. I wish you so much love. Talk to God

[designguy]

I think it can show the depth of how much you loved and cared for that person and it also can show you the reality of life and how transitory it is and the importance of enjoying that person in the moment and the rest of life. We're here to live and eventually we all leave this physical existence but who knows if we really die, i like to think we don't.

[designguy]

I also think that the person you loved would want you to stick around and enjoy and fulfill your life here, I know I would want that for someone who deeply loved me.