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The hits just keep coming...

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This year has been a nightmare.

In March, my PTSD was severely triggered by a guy I was dating. He went through my phone, trying to figure out why I wasn't as into him as he was for me. When I broke it off, he clung to me and my friends. This was the same behavior that was observed in my high school bf right before he fell off a cliff trying to stop me from dating someone new.

In April, I had a beer after a race with friends and was pulled over with an OUI. This resulted in me not getting the opportunity of a lifetime and become a part of the cast of a new competition show.

In September, I was let go from my job for no reason.

In November, I was informed that my landlord was selling my apartment of 7 years.

I took a trip to visit my sister for Thanksgiving. While I was here, my nephew's school called to tell us that he was googling ways to kill himself. The next day, I received a text message from the landlord who is taking over my apartment saying I'm expected to move out next week.

Idk what to do. Idk where to go. Idk how to help my nephew. Everything seems to be spiraling and I'm fighting like hell to stay afloat, but it feels like the universe is against me.

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NoMoreMasks

Rock bottom is good place to start over. It may not seem like it right now but someday you will look back and say all this had to happen to be where you are. I know that doesn’t help now. I’m in a low point myself right now but I now that’s all it is. I’m sure things will get better but right now it sure feels pretty crappy. I’m laying in bed bawling my eyes out about my life as I give advice! WTH Maybe I just needed a good cry but like you I feel like the universe has had it out for me since the day I came into this world. Stay strong and know you don’t fight this battle alone ❤️

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Midori

I'm pretty sure it's illegal to give someone so little notice. It's not as if you needed eviction, I think your landlord is trying it on with you. Check your local and State laws about evictions.

Can you get a lawyer?

Cheers, Midori

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TitansMom318 in reply to Midori

They're not evicting us. The new landlord is trying to bully us out of the apartment after terminating our tenancy at will. They dropped off a 30 day notice on Thursday, right before texting and harassing me, which states January 7 as the day I need to move out. They're really just trying to strongarm me and my neighbors.

But of course I came home from my trip yesterday to find my psycho roommate who threatens to kill everyone has broken our fridge (now it doesn't work), as well as a good amount of other things around the apartment. I just need to get out.

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Midori

Another reason to get together and get a lawyer! Cease and desists can get an ignorer in Big troble.

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JkBauer

Good evening,Wow, these are some tough waters to walk through right now. I understand where you are though, I have walked through a bunch of tough waters myself. It is difficult to know where to start and what to do. What I have learned is that you cannot try and fix them all at once. And worrying only brings more unneeded anxiety into your life. So, I learned the hard way, to take the smallest and most important situation first. (You have lost your apartment and a job). This can actually be a blessing in disguise. You went to your sister's for Thanksgiving. What better time than now, maybe you can find a job first, and then a place to live near her, since now she is dealing with a heartbreaking situation with her son. You could be near her to help support and encourage her and her family. Who knows, you might just be the one to help her son out because you know about anxiety problems. I always start by praying to God, please help me! For I do not know where to go or what to do. I need your wisdom, direction and discernment, and peace. In Jesus Name, Amen

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