Hey yall. 🥰

I'm so lonely today. Not really sure why. Does anyone else have these "spells" or bouts of loneliness?

[Hb2003]

Yep sometimes 😔

[Rituals]

Yes always 💕

[LucozadeOrange]

I feel lonely when I’m sad and no one relates to how I’m feeling.

[Hidden in reply to LucozadeOrange]

I understand what you mean. I'm grateful to have you guys on this support group because y'all understand. ❤

[Roxylox]

Yes, pretty often lately.

[Hidden in reply to Roxylox]

Me too. I've discovered that reading about things and gaining knowledge is helping me cope. Sometimes I watch history and art documentaries just for the heck of it lol. I really need to start reading more again. Hope all is well for you!

[Roxylox in reply to Hidden]

I actually aiways loved history. I should spend more time reading offline too

[Not_Free]

Yep ... especially right now. Just want to know I'm loved. I hate it when people are fake with me.

[Hidden in reply to Not_Free]

Me too friend. We are here for you and we do care! ❤

[samack]

All the time. Its hard being so depressed.

[Hidden in reply to samack]

Yes it is. I can be in a room full of people and still feel lonely.

[Mrspjsmom]

Definitely. I have been feeling lonely today and just off. I finally decided just to take it easy.

[Hidden in reply to Mrspjsmom]

That's good that you decided to be gentle with yourself. I hope your day has gotten better!

[TyrSwimmer_Sac]

So Severe are my bouts that I consider suicide all the time. I'm on medication, I do therapy, I exercise, I do self help with CBT and DBT, I work all the time or at least till my body and mind gives out. I lean on my dogs and cat for the love to keep going as I don't have a family of my own. It's strange but the love I get from them keeps me going. Because of them I am still alive. Since I'm gay male and single they are as close to kids I have been able to have. So the answer to your question is yes. It's tough but just trying to get to the next day.

I hope you've found something to help ease your loneliness. So I feel your pain. I'm not always around on HU, but when I am , I'm here if you need someone to listen/talk.

[Mrspjsmom in reply to TyrSwimmer_Sac]

The love we get from our pets is unconditional. Mine often keep me going. I hope there are better days ahead for you.

[SoulfulSurvivor]

I know how you feel If you want, we can be friends. I shared a lot of the interests you have. But anyways, no one should be feeling alone :,( It's the worst feeling ever. We all deserve someone to talk to. I am here for you if you want.

[Hidden]

Often, even though I live with my lovely Hubby who gives me hugs whenever I need them 😍

[panamaborn]

Hello anciousgorl12 I feel like this sometimes you are not alone

[Midori]

Yes, we all go though 'blue times'. Even a grey day will make me miserable, but sunshine lifts me, even if I'm indoors.

At the moment I'm having a blue-ish time, I'm awaiting work on the bungalow, and in the meantime I need to clear the garage of boxes, clear the kitchen as the dishwasher has died and has ruined the laminate flooring, must get most of the china etc. put away somewhere until I can get the kitchen redone. Being physically disabled does not help at all, and I hate having strange workmen in the place.Right now I'm procrastinating, and pretending it isn't there and isn't happening.

I also need to weed the garden, before the Triffids take over!

Cheers, Midori

[lolanell]

It’s normal to feel lonely…learn to spend time with yourself and all you have to offer the world….

[DoodleMomma]

I do every day of my life. My psychologist says I have to learn to love the person I’m with, myself. Trying to work on that because loneliness hurts to the core.