If anyone needs me let me know.

[BrianER]

I hope you all are well. Kind of in my feelings right now. Ha. Don't know why, but if anyone wants to talk I'm here.

[Roxylox]

Think l need you Brian. Feeling down. Overwhelmed by the fact so many people dont like me.

Was bullied at former workplace , left because of that. Am amazed no former workmates I was close to approached me since. Someone who l wasn't so close to did, but Im amazed at the others and feel they cant have thought much of me.

Feelings of worthlessness like this pop up now and again

I was so dedicated to that place like you wouldn't believe.!

I hope you are doing well yourself

[Hidden in reply to Roxylox]

Hey, Roxylox, so many people here like you very much. 💗 Myself included, of course. ☺️

Someone special to me once said that "It's none of our business what other people think of us." It took me a minute to process this and then it hit me. She was right. Why should I have any concern for people who do not like me? I like me, that's all that matters.

Another favorite of mine is "We would be much less concerned about what people think of us if we realized how seldom they do."

You are nice person, please don't feel worthless, you are important to all of us. 💗

[Roxylox in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so very very much Snowdaze. I really apprexiate your lovely reply. I really hope you are doing well.

You are so right, we think about the words they said for far longer than they think about us.

What does that day about them tjough, l wonder. The people who slated me were employ..ed in a caring role. How could they happily be so mean to some, and yet care for vulnerable clients. I honestly don't get it.

By the way, l do like me, must repeat that like a mantra. I am so , so grateful for your post Snowdaze, always here too if you need anyone x

[BrianER in reply to Roxylox]

Sorry guys, I was sleeping ha. I understand the stress though. Because your gonna be spending time with these people everyday so it would be nice to be on good terms and stuff. So I see the dilemma. I would focus on the job right now. Master that and the rest will come. I know at least around here there is alot of places that when a new employee starts. The others are a little stand off ish. Lots of feeling associated on both sides. Just be your sweet self and they will come around I'm sure of it. Hope that made sense. Haha

[Roxylox in reply to BrianER]

Sorry Brian . In actual fact, l have left that job. I was not new, was there 3 years anf the first 2 years were fine. Plenth of people l liked there andthought the manager liked me. When it came to a heaf l heard het tell the others at a morning meeting that she had never liked me, was only pretending. Then proceeded to list out my perceived faults., could not say enough bad about me. I worked really hard there.

I do have just 3 hours elsewhere now, but its something.

[BrianER in reply to Roxylox]

Well. As long as your not there now. Sounded like he wasn't very happy with how his life was going If he had to put down other people. I'm glad your out if there. Uou deserve better and better will come.

[Roxylox in reply to BrianER]

True thanks Brian.

[Midori in reply to Roxylox]

I totally agree with Snowdaze. it's the same with folk on the street; they may make a remark about you in passing, but you can bet your britches that they won't remember by the next corner.

It's not that they don't like you, its that they all have their own burden of worries, and once you are out of sight, you are out of mind. There just isn't enough space in the 'Now' portion of the brain to keep everything there, and if it isn't important to keep that particular memory, it goes to the recycle bin. A bit like your Inbox.

Cheers, Midori

[Hidden in reply to Roxylox]

You are very welcome, Roxylox. Thanks so much for your kindness, it is appreciated more than you know. 🌸

[Hidden]

You are very thoughtful, BrianER. Thank-you. 🌿