What the meaning of life when you lost your One and Only, true love and soul mate with whom is the only hope you can live happily?

[LikunHill]

I gave up the second shot which we scheduled to take it together at the same day would’ve been exactly on his birthday, then, suddenly, he died 13 days before it in the dream over Cardiac arrest..so, the second shot is meaningless to me so as the life

[Chase888]

I understand because I was with my man for 8 years and the same, heart attack. I found him. but I have the warm memories and I began to write down all the nice things he said to me.

I don't know if it's any consolation but it would have been worse if our guys had left us for another person.

A woman who's husband left her said she would have coped better if he had died and I knew a few other women who were dumped.

The way I cope when I have bad days (more since lockdown) is to tell myself that I will have a good day again.

God bless and keep posting.

[LikunHill in reply to Chase888]

I am a Christian. Because of him, I became a Christian, just wanna to know what he knew, study what he studied, love what he loved ，try to have the qualities that he had, because I love him so much so. Since the day I surrendered my life fully into God’s hand, let Jesus be my Lord,going into my heart ,living inside of me. I talked to God every morning when I wake up and every night before I go to sleep, studying Bible, doing my best to build the intimacy relationship with Lord; I am whole heartedly thankful for the grace that God granted me and my BF meeting at the first place in my every prayer;how lucky I was ,was fallen in love with by such a perfect man on his first sight. For over one year’s relationship , never a little bit arguing happened in our everyday communication, because he was such a gentle, decent, golden hearted man; more we knew each other, more desperately deeper and stronger we love each other; and in such a true pure unconditional love, we accepted each other just totally as the way we were , and we know it’s God created us for each other as per the will of God , we meant to each other. In his eyes am his Muse, he my king. Everything between us in this relationship looked going so smoothly, fantastically beautifully , that we already had this plan to be engaged in the near future; for times sitting under the soft moonlight, we pictured the every bright wonderful amazing day in our future marriage life,even in the decades, when we sell all we have to put in our truck ,rolling on the road ,heading to everywhere we want, just always stick together every minute in every day, no matter what, thick or thin, everyone sees us would never see us apart;even though,gray would has grown, wrinkles would have covered all the face, still, in his eyes am always his Muse, babygirl, he my king. Nothing gonna change that, nor our true love forever and ever..My future husband was becoming to me my whole world; and more than the world: almost my hope of heaven...how could he so cruel to me, left me alone in this cold crazy world;he promised to protect me to die with me at the same time, because he knew I could not live without him, so did he. .

[Opportunity in reply to LikunHill]

My heart is sad with you. 😔

[Pugglesworth]

My condolences on your loss.

It sounds as if you place a great deal of yourself into your faith. And as Paul said, in end only three things matter: faith, hope and love. And the greatest of these is love.

God, the Great Link, the Quantum Field, Being, The Universe (call it what you will) doesn't give us more than we can handle. There is a lot of wisdom in that statement. And we're not here to drift aimlessly, without purpose, held hostage to what seems to be random events affecting us. We're part of a greater whole touching each others lives in ways we cannot possibly imagine. We are all energy, reacting and acting on other forms of energy. And energy can neither be created nor destroyed: it simply is. It can change forms and be transferred, but it does not cease to exist.

So life is not meaningless even when we are at the bottom of our barrel.

At the bottom all we can do is look up.

[b1b1b1]

Get the second shot. I am sure this man would want you to do that. xx

[cbgrace1980]

I can't imagine the amount of sadness you are carrying around, but please don't try to carry it around alone. When we go through storms, we need to find people who can help us. Maybe there is a Grief Share group in your area that you could join to find a network of people experiencing loss. I'm so glad you have faith in God, because that will serve you well during this time. Prayers to you.

[Milly6q]

My favourite Bible verse is Psalm 23 x it is a great reminder that God is always there x I am so sorry that you have lost your soul mate x my husband and I were bought together by God. At the moment I am not close to God . Although I know he is close to me .... And as he prompts me .... With words like " I will never leave u " anyway enough about me this is about u . Allow yourself time to reflect ... But don't be alone to punish yourself . Express your feelings in as many ways u feel are helpful. The Lord wants you to be strong and to go on .