Dont know what to do. I think im spiraling down.

[Crow0]

I met someone online and we talk and got to know eachother for quite sometime now but we are far from eachother. The feelings are mutual and I think I've fallen already. But now I can feel that it's slowly fading. I know she is facing some of her problems alone from the past and present And I want to be there for her eventhough I know there are things that only that person can fix by herself. And It kills me that I cant do anything about it. And Im having the fear of being left out and being replaced. And Im trying my best. I know it's kinda childish and silly but this is how I feel. I hope there is someone who can help me.

[Hidden]

I don't know how to help you, I can barely help myself. It's sweet that you care about her so much. We all have things we have to face on our own. We have to rescue ourselves sometimes. Even if we have no clue how to do it.

[HerChoice]

Work on you, enlighten your your life and let the negative pass. As well as her. Work on yourselves before being fully committed. - Hard work pays off!

[san_ray70]

I met my husband this way, he lived 150 miles from me, I was able to come and see him, but we fell for each other over the phone. We did not meet for 3 months, if she is worth waiting for, keep the friendship up. It will not be long, hopefully and it is nice to have something to look forward to. Good luck, we have been married 16 years now.