Been a while...: It’s been a while... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

88,505 members82,958 posts

Been a while...

Tbowler profile image
4 Replies

It’s been a while since I even thought about posting on here. Well, I’m back.

I found out my wife was cheating on me back in August after having assumptions since Easter. Got the confirmation and then the other day, the other guy showed up at my door.

I’m struggling with what he was telling me happened as recently as last weekend, she denies it. We have a 3.5 year old son, I want to make it work for him because I came from a broken family due to infidelity, but I’m just not sure.

Thoughts? Has anyone else had infidelity work to have a future?

Written by
Tbowler profile image
Tbowler
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
4 Replies
1OshunDreamer profile image
1OshunDreamer

Sorry to hear that. Why do you think she's denying it? Why are you trusting this guy's word over your wife's? I'm not asking for negative reasons, just curious how you came to your conclusion.

Tbowler profile image
Tbowler in reply to 1OshunDreamer

I feel she is denying things that actually happened to protect me. I really just need 100% honesty and a clean slate is why I ask questions. I don’t trust him over her, but I have to keep in mind that he doesn’t have anything to lose, and some of the things/pictures he had to show me and say were too much of a coincidence to not just take his word as a grain of salt.

1OshunDreamer profile image
1OshunDreamer in reply to Tbowler

Totally get that. Is want 100% honesty too. It's the only way I could move forward. I'm with Andrea2d, try couple's counseling.

Couple's counseling?

You may also like...

It’s been a little while

doing something guess I was wrong but I’m also sensitive to meds since I’ve always just taken birth...

Been gone for a while

on my mental health but I’m happy to be back where people understand what I’m dealing with❤️ How’s...

Been a while...

like my depression can’t be that bad if I’m still able to go to work and function. And if it’s...

I've been away for a while. Sorry for the lack of responses.

very slow speed, trying to get home, but it didn't work. I had a couple cars lean on their horns...

This has been going on for a while and nobody knows...

live where we have no family or friends and the closest they live is 16 hrs away. I don't have...