Advice? Please..... 😩

[UnderstandingMyPain]

Ever have your days 📆 when you feel like you can’t 😫 move forward?? ➡️ What do you do?

[NeuronerdDoaty]

I don’t move forward. Does every day need to be forward motion? If so, I’m in trouble. I take it as it comes. I’m more of a loner on a float mid-ocean.

[UnderstandingMyPain in reply to NeuronerdDoaty]

Nothing thought about it like that!! Thank you for sharing and giving me another perspective

[Hidden in reply to NeuronerdDoaty]

your comment reminded me of a college professor who used to tell us students: you don't have to come in first place, you just have to float above the rest of the crowd that's drowning.

[NeuronerdDoaty in reply to Hidden]

Exactly! I love it.

My grandma said if five years from now you won’t remember this exact moment then no worries.

[Hidden in reply to NeuronerdDoaty]

ha! must have been a saying back then or something, cause my grandma used to say the same thing when i'd be upset: "5 years from now you won't even remember it!"

[NeuronerdDoaty in reply to Hidden]

Grandmas were so smart. Hope my grandkids think I’m smart when they grow up. Lol

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

I like to say that... In two years will I remember this... probably not

[UnderstandingMyPain in reply to Hidden]

That is great advice!!

[Want2BHappy3]

I try to think of positive things, listen to music. Go to counciling, haven't been able to lately for financial reasons. I can get to start going next month hopefully my medicare kicks in. And DON'T talk to any friends or family they don't want to hear it cause they don't understand?

[LovePurple2 in reply to Want2BHappy3]

I try to think of positive things & keep myself busy. Praying your Medicare kicks in next month & that will be a blessing! My husband & I have to change health insurance again for 2020. We had to do the same in 2018 for this year. What a pain.

[Hidden]

If I can't do then I take the day off and do not beat myself up for it...

My biggest helper is positive thinking it breeds more positive. I try my best to let the negative thoughts go, they aren't helpful, they will breed more negative and my goodness we have enough of that, right?

Also music, music and more music.....it's on all the time in my home. Lifts the spirits up.

I'm tossing you some sparkles...hope you enjoy them.

Dump trucks of groovy love, peace, light, joy and hugs!

[Want2BHappy3]

Everyday,. I usually talk myself out of going out. Believe me I'm motivated to move, but afraid of something going wrong? What does get me out most times is my grandson, he's like PLEASE NoNo come, I have turned him down a couple of time only because I have innsomia and do don't sleep At All like last night, it's going on ,5 am and I'm still awake. I'm so exhausted I can't. Happiness isn't in my Life.

[UnderstandingMyPain in reply to Want2BHappy3]

I can read your pain. I eventually was able to go to sleep around 2am but woke up around 7am. I do hope that you get to find happiness again for yourself. It is a defeating thought and that’s what it is a thought that has defeated you. I strongly believe you get your happiness again. I am going to be honest, I don’t know when but it will come

[Want2BHappy3 in reply to UnderstandingMyPain]

Thanks for your support, I hope things turn around 🙃