I'm weary

[Darknlovely504]

Everyday is a struggle it's tiring and shameful.

[MomLeslieM]

I am so sorry you are feeling so down. Any idea what had made you feel so bad? Please know there is always hope -- no matter how bad things seem. Can you name at least one good thing right now? If so what is it?

[Darknlovely504 in reply to MomLeslieM]

My health and finances makes me sad and the way ppl treat me.

[MomLeslieM in reply to Darknlovely504]

I'm sorry....those are two biggies. Is there anything you can do to try to improve your health and your finances??? What is one GOOD thing that's going on???

[Darknlovely504 in reply to MomLeslieM]

Can't seem to feel better no matter what and the finance thing is hindered by my poor health.

[MomLeslieM in reply to Darknlovely504]

I can understand that totally Do you have any type of spending plan or budget in place to help you know what your income and expenses are? That really helped me when we had financial issues going on - it seems like it's not worth it if you know you have way more expense than income but it really does help to put it out on paper and try to chip away at things. Dave Ramsey's website can be a big help for things like that. I highly recommend it! Do you have an IRL counselor you can talk to?

[Darknlovely504 in reply to MomLeslieM]

I plan at times but sometimes I go overboard or there's not enough money to pay everything or to get what we need And or want. No I don't have an IRL counselor.

[MomLeslieM in reply to Darknlovely504]

Those needs have to take precedence over the wants for sure...but it's SO hard I know! Check out this site to see if it can help you make and stick with a plan that works -- daveramsey.com/get-started/... I HIGHLY recommend his stuff!!!