My wonderful husband passed away yesterday after fighting the beast for 15 years. Gleason 8 all but one core positive. He was so strong tried so hard, 2 clinical trials radiation, Zytiga, Xofigo, lupron for the entire time. Finally at age 65 his body could take no more, he lost over 40 pounds, no energy, last scan showed mass on pancreas, more than likely prostate cancer. He is no longer suffering, on hospice for 4 days so he passed at home No more hospitals, no more scans, or doctors, hopefully he is now free of this horrible disease. For all fighting, good luck, keep living life and loving. judym
Cancer takes another brave man - Advanced Prostate...
Cancer takes another brave man
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condolences
I am sincerely sorry for your loss, May your husband RIP.
I'm so sorry Judy. Please take care of yourself now. I know your pain must be immense. I hope that you can find some solace in the knowledge of how much good you have done and that your lovely husband is suffering no more.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
So very sorry.
🙏 for you and your loved ones .
My sincere sympathy- your husband certainly went through the whole range of treatments - he’s been taken far too soon - may he rest in peace & may you find peace & future happiness
Judy, my sincere condolences of the loss of your beloved Husband. Taken far too young. May he be at peace now.
Take care of yourself ,
Kim
So sorry to hear...I read his/your bio. Cannot imagine the pain that both of you endured. Condolences.
I'm so sorry Judy. I know you both fought hard for many years. Prayers for strength for you as you navigate this next stage.
dear judy....so sorry ...what a fight....and started at a young age.....hope it didnt steal all those years and some grate memories were made that will bring a smile to u when the tears slow down...big irish hug.......peace ...bw
I am so sorry for your loss and for losing another warrior in this fight. God bless you.
I have started last year, age 50 as well.
I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. I know how all the tests and therapies can completely take over one's life. I'm sure he was glad to be at home in the end.
I’m sorry for your loss.
My condolences Judy. I’m so sorry for your loss. You both have fought so hard.
Very sorry for your loss. Glad he could be at home during his passing. Take good care of yourself. -Deb
I grieve with you. You both fought bravely and endured too much fighting this terrible disease. Please, take care of yourself. I wish you peace and loving memories.
So sorry for your loss.
Yet another star blinks into existence in the evening skies, helping to light the way for all who follow. May all the good memories hold you up during this transition, and for all who are affected by his passing.
Pax
So sorry for your loss!
I am so sorry for your loss. He was lucky to you with him.
so sorry for your loss
I am very sorry for your loss, yor husband has peace now and is asleep. Now you need some time to recover and to bring to the front of your mind the good times you and your husband shared together before the beast arrived into your lives.
So sorry for you loss and my sincerest condolences!
I am so sorry about the loss of your beloved husband at an early age. However,now he has no more suffering. Cherish the memories of the past you enjoyed with him and move forward with courage.
My heart goes out to you Judymin and although my husband has only been fighting for a year, he has had it much longer. Please take care of yourself now. God be with you.
Very sorry to hear this.
so sorry
so sorry to hear you news Judy. I can only imagine your sense of loss. You were there for him and that must have been such a comfort.
Another brave warrior gone all of my love to you❤️, hope you have many good memories. Xxx
I'm sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry for your loss, prayers and condolences
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Your husband is now at peace. Condolences to you and your family.
Our sympathies to you and your family. You fought together. Time to take care of yourself now. Wishing you peace and comfort.
I’m so sorry to read of your beloved’s passing. Praying for your peace at this sorrowful time.
so sorry for your loss, and what a battle he fought❤️ May he soar with the angels.
🙏❤💪
So sorry. He is in better place with no pain. Though it is heartbreaking. We will all join him soon or later. Sorry.
R.I.P
My deepest condolences.
Condolences
Sending you gentle hugs. Love and Light.
I'm so sorry, Judy. You both fought a good fight, and I am glad you were there for him. Wishing you peace and strength.
My heart felt condolences
I'm so sorry.
Condolences and best wishes to you and your family.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
So sorry... Yes, it is a beast, but you both did all you could. May that be a comfort to you. Be kind to yourself. Thinking of you with prayer.
at times like this there are no words that can express my sorrow, so sorry to hear 🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for your loss.
God bless you and those who loved him!
…we all walk the path blazed by your husband. In this group we really feel your loss. I hope in his long battle that his experience helped others. That is all we can ask for. Best wishes.
So sorry for your loss. I hope you have peace, comfort, and good memories to sustain you and your family.
I’m truly left in another direction when I discover caretakers of many and especially wives and husbands which words cannot express my true feelings of your soulmate passing.Bless all the great caring and caring of meticulous love ❤️ you forwarded however I know all your energy was given for continuous survival
To serve with love
Sorry for your loss, and condolences to you and the loved ones left behind.
So sorry to hear of his passing. He is now free of this disease in a far better place. Praying for your peace.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Judymin. How wonderfully strong your husband was to keep fighting for fifteen years! Being there, fighting beside him and, finally, bringing him home so he could pass with you by his side was one of the greatest gifts you could give him. Be gentle with yourself as you navigate what life looks like from here forward. Wishing peace to you and all who loved him!
In solidarity,
Sunlight
Do sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort knowing he is free of this earthly body. Benediciones.
I am very sorry for your loss. 15 years of treatment is a long time but he was lucky to have it. May he rest in peace.
So sorry for your loss. Prayers that God will embrace you and guide you through the days ahead.
Sounds like he had a great spirit! Sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your husband is out of pain and at peace. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.
My heart and prayers go out to you! May you find peace in your heart knowing that he is no longer in pain while engaged in this horrific battle and that he finally has found peace. May his memory always be a blessing to you, your family and friends! 💕🙏🏻
sorry for the loss of your loved one
Not only is he free of this disease, but so are you. Now it's time to take care of yourself because I know that was put on hold for a long time.
Dear Judymin, I am so sorry. You must be exhausted. I just read gsun's reply and when I saw "take care of yourself because I know that was put on hold for a long time" I thought, oh, that sounds so true. I have a dear friend who seems to have gained a lot from a "bereavement group" (organized through funeral home I think) and an informal "widow's group" which arose from that who still socialize. You both worked hard together. May he rest in peace.
sending my sincere sympathy. Such a familiar history for so many. You’ve been through it all with him. Be sure to take care of yourself!❤️
15 years ... He fought a great fight... His battle gives us all strength and hope to make it that far... to meet the challenges he did and fight on... What a man... May he rest in peace and may you know peace...my prayers are with you and for you both....
From the previous posts, we could see the struggles. I am supported also by a wonderful woman who I think might not realise what lies ahead for both of us in the future. I share a similar diagnosis, Gleason score etc and it's been 4 years. Thank you for taking the time to let us know, and look after yourself.
The beast is taking our warriors too soon, too young. My heart breaks for you for your loss
Prayers and blessings on you all as you morn his loss and celebrate his life
Hard to read. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
RIP husband.
I'm very sorry for your loss! May the good Lord give you strength and peace as you continue life without the physical presence of your beloved husband!!
Ditto
My condolences on the passing of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. 🙏🙏🙏
So sorry for your loss, he was obviously loved and that is all we can hope for.
So very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time!
Sorry for your loss
I am so sorry for your loss. Mt deepest condolences to you and the rest of his family and friends. He fought so bravely. God Bless and comfort you as you mourn his loss.
Judymin, condolences for your loss. What a team you must have been fighting and never giving up for 15 years.
My heartfelt condolences to you and family. Take care.
I’m sorry. Peace be with you and with him.
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Judymin. Thank you for your support of our fellow cancer buddy. We all appreciate the women who fight beside us and bear so much of the grief.
So very sorry for your loss. Please remember the good times, the laughter. Thank you for supporting your husband. God bless you and may he rest in peace.Graham
My condolences Judy, so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband, God Bless You !!
Judy - in reading his bio one thing was obvious - you were there for him for 15 years. That's a wonderful thing and something you can take solace from, you were there. That really counts. While people say "He's in a better place.." in this case with the suffering he was going through that is almost correct. You'll be in a better place once your grief recedes a bit. I hope there are friends and family members who can help you deal with the grief and loneliness, that can make a big difference. It's time now for you - thank you for caring for your husband through better and worse, sickness and in health. I will suggest to you, what you offered us "keep living life and loving" - thank you.
My deepest sympathies for your loss. May God rest his soul.
I am so sorry for your loss 💔 May he rest in peace.
Sad, sad news, and he was so young. Life sometimes isn't fair, but I wish the best for you in overcoming the adversity of this terrible loss.
so sorry to hear of your loss. I’m just starting this ordeal, so I can’t empathize, but I can certainly appreciate what it means to lose a loved one. Best wishes to you, Judymin.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your husband sounds like a brave, fighting soul. We are all in this together and pray for everyone involved.
so sorry
so very sorry
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My dear sweet wonderful husband passed away 4 years ago from this horrible disease after fighting hard for 3 years, not long before our 25th wedding anniversary. Try to remember your husband would want you to be happy as you move on through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.