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The fight is over

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sadly my husband past on 20th of February, he fought to the very end but died peacefully at home. He was only 68 and the sense of loss is overwhelming even though I’ve known for months it was coming soon. I have taken a lot of comfort from this group over the past year as we embarked on Pluvicto which unfortunately wasn’t the miracle we thought it may be.

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evergladesbear profile image
evergladesbear

🙏

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skiingfiend

I'm sorry to hear your news. Bless you, your family and your close friends and all who feel the sorrow of your recent loss.

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PSAed

Sorry for your loss. RIP

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Tall_Allen

I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. I'm glad you got to be with him in his final moments.

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16starsky

So sorry to read of your loss Fiona, this is such a cruel disease. We send you our condolences, and a big hug to you and your family. God bless you, , and knowing your Husband is pain free now is a small comfort you can take..Please take time to care for yourself, I hope you have a good network of friends and family that can help you through this most terrible chapter in your life.

Kim and Clint in West Yorkshire.

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Kaliber

I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of another valiant brother . Seems like brothers are passing far too often nowadays. I’m sure you wrapped him in your love at the end , he passed knowing he was loved and you were by his side. I’m sending out a ehug to you too brother , I hope your heart mends quickly, as your new world unfolds for you. ❤️❤️❤️

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swwags

I'm sorry

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Maxone73

sorry to hear of another brother leaving us

God bless you and your family and friend for the love you gave him

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DarrylPartner

condolences

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SuppWife

I’m deeply sorry for your loss. Peace to you🙏🏻

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Carlosbach

Fiona, I am truly sorry for your loss. Since you joined HU your posts have told your story as the two of sought out advanced treatments and hoped for more time together. While I’m sorry that Pluvitico did not provide more help, I can imagine what a blessing it was to your husband to have you at his side, advocating for him. I wish you the comfort of family and friends during your healing process, and a bright spirit as you move forward in your own journey

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Mtnhigh

Fiona, I'm very sorry for your loss. This is such a difficult time but gradually it will begin to get better. Lean on those around you. -Deb

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zeitgeistxx

I grieve with you. I hope memories of your beloved bring you solace and healing. I wish you peace.

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Mike1971

Fiona I’m so sorry for your loss.

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Yadifan

I'm so very sorry for your loss. We grieve with you and all of us here appreciate you letting us know. I know this must have been a hard post to write. You will be in my prayers for strength and comfort. Sending you hugs from Arizona.

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PSA680

My sincere condolences for your sad loss. May your much loved husband rest in peace. Kindest Regards Darren

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Warriorthree

so sad he is free now , and the memories will always be with you of happier times , all my love ❤️Xxx

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Nusch

My sincerest condolences! I’m very sorry for your loss and thankful, that you’ve shared it with us. We all go to the other side of the horizon and I’m confident that we’ll be all re-united some day.

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wvdmb

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. We are starting Pluvicto next week.

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FionaElbourne in reply to wvdmb

Best wishes I hope it works for you,

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Bronzee

So sorry for your loss. Deepest sympathy and condolences.

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spw1

Very sorry to read this. It is impossible to be prepared for the loss. Holding you in light. 🙏

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lcfcpolo

My condolences Fiona. Thank you for supporting your husband. Please remember the good times, the laughter.Graham

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Izzygirl1

I am so very sad to read this and I’m sending you love and ((HUGS)). I joined a grief share group right after I lost my dear husband to this cruel disease. May the good memories bring you peace and comfort.

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Sisira

My deepest sympathies !

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Formosan

My sincere Condolences.Is there any way we can check this dreadful disease?

How many years since his discovery of this cancer and how was his courses of treatment?

I feel this disease is gradually taking my life

away

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FionaElbourne in reply to Formosan

hi he got 9 years since discovery age 59. He was stage 4 with widespread mets on discovery. He had chemo twice docetaxel and cabitaxel, enzalutimide, zytiga, decapeptyl hormone injections. Targeted radiotherapy all worked for a time but eventually he tried Pluvicto which reduced PSA by 70% but the tumours spread rapidly and it was stopped after 3rd treatment that was 6 months ago.

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Pmann

Sorry for your loss, May He Rest In Peace

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hopeful1956

Oh Fiona, I'm so sorry to read this. Sending my heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Love and Light. :(

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Istomin

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

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turkeyjoe1

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

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Leaffan57

so sorry for your loss

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Tinuriel

No one can be fully prepared for losing someone so dear. May you find peace and courage as you process the grief you now feel. Hugs, dear heart.

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Kevinski65

may he rip

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DesertDaisy

I'm so very sorry for your loss. It makes me so very sad every time I hear that we have lost another fighter.

Kay

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APK3

🙏 for you and your love ones.

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Blue-Mockingbird

These beautiful men are falling too fast and I’m feeling your pain right now. No words can assuage that but know you and he are held in loving light

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Pianodude

Sorry for your loss. Peace to you.

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timotur

Dear Fiona, very sorry to hear of his passing, wishing you the best during this time of grievance. -- Tim

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Sagewiz

So very sorry for hou. I hope there is some comfort in that you tried al you could to get more time without extending any suffering. Wishing you peace.

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John778

My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

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nacinla

Sorry to hear this. He was fortunate to have you with him in this journey. May his memory be a blessing. -Nick

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j-o-h-n

Dear Fiona,

My sincere condolences to you, your family and friends. Although I do not know your Dear Husband's name, I will make sure he will have a free pass to my Comedy Store in The Sky as long as he mentions the name Fiona..... God Bless...

j-o-h-n

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GumpaD28

So very sorry for your loss. There are really no words I can say to ease your pain. Just know that all his brothers here are Praying for you to be strong. And my God take his hand and lead him into His Kingdom 🙏🙏🙏

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Har036

Fiona, so sorry to hear that your husband has passed. Praying for you, may you be comforted and receive strength and peace in this difficult time.

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Positive22

Peace and prayers with you and family.

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Realistic

Dear Fiona, lm so for for the really sad loss of your dear husband. Please take care of yourself. Love Sheila f xxx

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Mikeski

So sorry for your loss and saddened he was so young. 🙏

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FjSENC

Sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and his family and friends.

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Amadeus71

🙏❤💪

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garyjp9

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Thank you for sharing this news. May he rest in peace.

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strummer

I am sorry for your loss. My husband died November 30th at age 71. I feel your pain

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cancerfox

So sad that someone so young is victimized by this disease. My condolences as you grieve.

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Hereformydad2022

🙏💗 I’m so sorry

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Proflac

From one wife to another I am deeply sorry for your loss. I've followed your progress as a fellow Brit. You fought so hard and did all you could in difficult circumstances of our NHS. I am so glad the passing was peaceful. You have given a lot to this site - thank you for that and I hope your pain eases in coming times. Lorraine

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Don717

My families condolences to yours. 68 is way too young. I hope you can continue in peace knowing that he is in your heart forever.

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HikerWife

I'm so sorry, Fiona. Wishing you strength and peace in the aftermath of such a difficult time. I'm glad he passed peacefully at home. --Sooz

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Gamgam2

So sorry for your loss. I found this group helpful as well.

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Wolfee53

God Bless you both!

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