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Priyamvada91
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This is the first place I came to, dad's gone. I could never say he lost the battle because it was never a fair one to begin with but I do know he wanted to keep fighting. I will pray for everyone who has ever lost a loved one. It's been the toughest day. Thanks to this community, me and my sister got alot of information and help through this whole journey. Grateful ๐Ÿ™

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JohnInTheMiddle profile image
JohnInTheMiddle

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Lyubov profile image
Lyubov

Sincere condolences & prayers for your strength.

Rob1053 profile image
Rob1053

So sorry for your loss!

dockam profile image
dockam

Oh d*mn๐Ÿ˜ญAnother Brother taken by this accursed disease ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Rest in Peace Sir and Suffer no more

Huge Hug from CA

Randy

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Tall_Allen

I'm so sorry to hear this.

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NickJoy

I'm so sorry- please take care of yourself. You have done your very best against a horrible foe.

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Metaldraft

God bless dad โ€ฆ.and you for his peace above always tough to have some pass that love you and raised you and proud you were there for his time

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Kaliber

my deepest heartfelt condolences for your loss.

โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

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lcfcpolo

So sad for your loss. What great daughters your Dad had. May he rest in peace.

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MyDad76

iโ€™m sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself, this disease is difficult for loved ones as well.

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DarrylPartner

Condolences

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strummer

So sorry for your loss.

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K-xo

My sincere condolences to you and your family. Youโ€™re right, this disease isn't fair and itโ€™s traumatic for the families too. Hope youโ€™re proud of yourself for all you did for your dad! You deserve the world. Take care. Xo

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Izzygirl1

Very sad to read this. So sorry for your loss.

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Carlosbach

Oh Priya, what a terrible loss. Thank you for loving and supporting your father during his struggle with such a relentless opponent.

Blessings to you and your family in this challenging time. Be kind to yourself and to each other.

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Taylor710

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billyboy3

Life csn be tough, sorry for your loss and another of our brothers gone to soon! Est in peace my friend!

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Lettuce231

Heartbreaking, our love to you and your family.RIP our brother no more pain, no more worry. Sleep weell.

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Sisira

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved father. May he rest in peace free from all pains ๐Ÿ™.

Merlin1960 profile image
Merlin1960

So sorry

spw1 profile image
spw1

Holding your dad and you all in light in the difficult time.

Ian99 profile image
Ian99

Sorry to hear. Sincere condolences to you and your family.

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fmoser

I am so sorry to read this. My thoughts are with your family. We lost our dad just 3 months ago as well. Itโ€™s so hard and I feel for you so deeply. I hope in these first few days you can truly rest. Iโ€™m sure the last year has consumed a lot of your and your families energy. Giving you a big hug!

Flash64 profile image
Flash64

Sorry for your loss.

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PSAed

Have no doubt Priyamvada91 your father's passing was eased by you and your sister at his side. RIP.

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Proflac

So sorry to hear this sad news

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dudubaya

Really Sad to hear this ๐Ÿ™

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larry_dammit

there are no words to describe the sorrow that comes with a warrior that has lost the battle. ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

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Realistic

God bless your dear brave Father, may he rest in peace. Love & hugs to you and your sister try and remember your happy times. SheilaFxxx

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Peealot

Iโ€™m very sorry.

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rosenjpj

He was lucky to have you by his side.

Bronzee profile image
Bronzee

So sorry for your loss. May your father rest in peace in the arms of our Lord. Deepest sympathy to you and your family

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Wongle1

My heart goes out to you and your family itโ€™s a terrible disease xx

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Fitzbruce1

So sorry for you and your sister.

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Amadeus71

๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ’ช

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BobbyMac07

Very sorry for you loss.๐Ÿ™

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Peeffervescence

Peace and healing to you

Istomin profile image
Istomin

My deepest condolences.

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pakb

I'm so sorry for your loss๐Ÿ’™

binati profile image
binati

Sorry to hear about your loss. We keep fighting on!

Yank66 profile image
Yank66

Our sympathies on the loss of your father. Now take care of each other as you adjust to life without him. Blessings for comfort and peace.

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frankie08033

Sorry for your loss. Sending love to you and your family.. I too lost my dad to PC and you are correct, it isnโ€™t a fair fight.

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BB_1

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hopeful1956

Please accept my sincerest condolences. Sending you hugs and lots of love and light.

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turkeyjoe1

Condolences to you and your family.

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HikerWife

I'm so sorry for your loss. It really isn't a fair fight, is it? Wishing peace and strength and comfort for you and your family.

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SeosamhM

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Tiger22Warrior

So very sorry for your loss!! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

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pilot52

Again , I will flash my wing lights to the heavens., For those still with us continue to share our travels, meds, and experience which may help someone else...

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dadzone43

Namaste ๐Ÿ™

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Shamrock46

Sending you heartfelt condolences! Watching what the disease and treatment have done to my husband, I find myself thinking about how I'd advise my son or 6 grandsons if they ever got this cursed cancer! I'll be much more honest than doctors have been! I'm sure your dad appreciates and was grateful for all you did for him!

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Lokicliff

Iโ€™m so sorry for your great loss. Much love and light for your family during this time.

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Wynnsts

Praying for Godโ€™s Peace and Comfort for your family!!!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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Dannyboy48

May he rest in peace ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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Tmetz

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Blueribbon63

Sending your way the most positive and healing vibes. So, sorry for your loss

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Tinuriel

Praying you find deep peace. Bless you for serving your dad so well.

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DesertDaisy

I'm so sorry for the great loss of your father. He was very fortunate to have such a loving family ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

Docker53 profile image
Docker53

So very sorry for your painful loss. May your heart be filled with all the precious memories you and your family had with your Dad.

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Decktime

I'm so sorry.

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anonymoose2

Seeing this to much lately. Including off this site. I really believe we could have cancer beat if more funding was directed to research. Has anyone noticed that only our representatives in congress donโ€™t get cancers? Iโ€™m not aware of any. When they do maybe we can move forward to beating this horrible disease.

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Currumpaw

Priyamada91,

There are times when words do not have enough weight to convey one's empathy or to lessen another's grief. Language seems --inadequate.

I express my sincere sympathy to you and your family. I have been where you are and at a very young age. Your grief will be different than mine was, but you will find that it will shape your life. I have, had decades living with my loss, the most significant loss in my life. It will always hurt, always--but--remember the love, sharing life with him and those special times. You will hear his voice. Your memories of certain shared events will be almost tangible. Some memories can be painful but if you try, you will also find the strength in these memories.

At times family, friends and clergy can be helpful. Sometimes being alone with our own thoughts is best. We never get over a significant loss, we learn to live with it. Grieve when you have to. Live life as he would have wished you to do when you can. Me, although it still hurts, I am grateful to have shared the years I did with him. That is the best we can do. That is the contract of life. You and your family be at rest, find some peace.

My best to you and your family,

Currumpaw

So sorry for your loss. May God bless you

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joeydashoe

So sorry for your loss rest in peace brother

Warrior13 profile image
Warrior13

Iโ€™m sorry for your loss, and thanks for the prayers for all of us

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Tonwantonga

sorry for your loss.

Karirudy profile image
Karirudy

May he rest in paradise and may you receive comfort and strength in the coming days. You and your sister were surely a blessing to him.

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Ztlf

I am so sorry. Prayers for you and your family, and for your dad's immortal soul.

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Tvssog902

Our thoughts and prayers. โค๏ธโค๏ธ

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Yadifan

I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. You are right...it's not a fair fight. Prayers for strength and comfort for you and your family.

Farlo profile image
Farlo

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Iโ€™m sending you and your sister a huge hug across the inter webs. May the memories of your father keep you afloat during stormy days

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Cancer2x

So sad to hear this. May you, your sister, and all who knew and loved him have a peaceful transition.

Pax

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Bluebird11

yes, I so agree about the use of โ€˜battleโ€™. I understand so well why itโ€™s used though there is such a giving in to it that made me resist. It is like giving it something. Now begins another experience of being without him physically. Iโ€™m glad you have family and your sister. This experience has so many shifting sides to it. Be kind to yourself and know that grief is difficult. There are many helpful groups that make a difference, just as this group helped.

May you continue in strength and knowing that love has carried you this far and will continue for everyone, most certainly your father.

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Hailwood

Deepest condolences

Hohman profile image
Hohman

Sincere condolences

TONNEY profile image
TONNEY

SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS SAD NEWS, I'M SURE YOUR DAD IS LOOKING DOWN WITH PRIDE TO BE LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE A BEAUTIFUL AND CARING FAMILY.

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fourputt

I am very sorry for your loss,

Papillon2 profile image
Papillon2

His work is finished. Yours is just beginning. Make him proud!

MustangGuy profile image
MustangGuy

So so sorry for the loss of your beloved father.

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Professorgary

I am so sorry for your loss and wish I could do something to ease the pain. One thing is for sure, you honored your earthly father as well as your Heavenly Father. May God hold you close as you grieve your dad.

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FjSENC

Sorry for your loss ๐Ÿ’”

Har036 profile image
Har036

Sincere condolences to you and your family.๐Ÿ™

MrOz profile image
MrOz

Condolences & prayers

Cateydid profile image
Cateydid

Iโ€™m so, so sorry to hear that your dad is a casualty of this awful war!! Bless you for your support of him as he fought for his life.

KocoPr profile image
KocoPr

So sorry to hear this news. Rest in Peace brother.

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Andy1569

Condolences

Survivor1965 profile image
Survivor1965

So sorry! F**k cancer

john510185 profile image
john510185

Very sorry for your loss.

Pianodude profile image
Pianodude

Sorry for your loss. Peace to you.

Brundo profile image
Brundo

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Wdoug profile image
Wdoug

So sorry!

j-o-h-n profile image
j-o-h-n

To the two soft spoken sisters... It's beyond speaking when your dear Dad passes on to another level in our God's Universe. He was a man..... he will now forever remain a memory. God Bless.

j-o-h-n Monday 09/11/2023 5:44 PM DST - Remember

RayF profile image
RayF

RIP to your Father, our Brother!

Peace to you and your family.

Cactus-Jack profile image
Cactus-Jack

My deepest heartfelt condolences for your loss. Sadness fills me every time we lose a fellow warrior.

bglendi53 profile image
bglendi53

My heart goes out to you and your family. Those of us fighting this curse never want to lose a brother

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garyjp9

My deepest sympathies to you, your sister, and the rest of your family. May he rest in Peace.

rhenrick profile image
rhenrick

You were both his constant support and this would have meant so much to him. May your father rest in peace.

cancerfox profile image
cancerfox

You and your sister have lost your dad way too early in your lives. My heart goes out to you in your grief.

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Bodysculpture

My prayers are with you and his family and friends He,s crossed the bridge we will all walk over one day

I believe there is peace the other side of the bridge

jberg22 profile image
jberg22

My sincere condolences to your father. May he rest in peace. ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š

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9Dexter6

So sorry to hear that your beloved Father has passed away, sending prayers to you and your family.

Big_Mcc profile image
Big_Mcc

Sorry to hear your sad news. May your father rest in peace now his fight is over.

Biobro profile image
Biobro

My condolences on the loss of your father.

Chris_Ali profile image
Chris_Ali

Sorry to hear it and wishing peace to your family.

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dadsdrdawn

I just experienced the same with my father passing on 8/17/23. Sending you love and light to you, your sister and family.

With love - Dawn

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Brbnbrn

I'm so sorry Priymvada91. I know this isn't fair for sure. I'm glad you have your sister to share with. Thank you for your prayers. Sincere sympathy to you. ๐ŸŒป ๐ŸŒน ๐Ÿ•Š

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Cactus297

I am so sorry for your great loss . ๐Ÿค—and ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿปfor you and your family.๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒบ

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Chris52981

I am so sorry God bless your sweet father and prayers for strength and peace for you and your family๐Ÿ’•

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