Devtony8 IA gone

[Devtony8]

Hello All. My husband passed away Saturday morning. He wanted everyone to know he didn't lose the battle, it was a draw. And he'll have that in his obituary. Thank you all for supporting him. You have done a good thing here. He needed this outlet!

[PSAed]

I am sorry for your loss, he is at peace now. Take care.

[Kaliber]

my deepest heartfelt condolences for the loss of your husband and dear group cancer warrior.

❤️❤️❤️

[NickJoy]

I am so very sorry. Thank you for passing on the message. You are right about this forum. We all draw strength from each other and his strength will help keep us going. Please take care of yourself.

[MyDad76]

Please accept my sincere condolences. I hope good memories will help you get through this times of sorrow and that you have good support network.

[Nusch]

My sincerest condolences!

[JohnInTheMiddle]

May his memory be for a blessing.

[Darryl Partner]

Condolences

[DesertDaisy]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband 🙏

[Magnus1964]

This is a loss to all of us and the forum.

[Andy1569]

So sorry for your loss!

Andy

[Tall_Allen]

I'm sorry for your loss. If he loved and had people, like you, who loved him, he came out ahead.

[Hidden]

Another brother gone far too soon.

[K-xo]

Oh no! I’m SO sorry for your loss. May your husband’s memory bring you comfort, strength and smiles. Please take care of yourself during this period of grief. You may not see it now, but only greatness coming your way. Xo

[j-o-h-n]

69 years old........... such a young age.............May he enjoy his forever in peace and joy.

To his family we wish them grand memories and his love...

j-o-h-n Wednesday 08/30/2023 1:55 PM DST

[Daddyishealing in reply to j-o-h-n]

My dad was 70 ..I still can't make light of that . My mom.was 63 and I'm battling my own disease and my odds aren't looking good are they lol

[rhenrick in reply to Daddyishealing]

I will wishing and praying for everything good to come your way.

[Daddyishealing in reply to rhenrick]

Tysm

[StillDancing]

Gone to his Glory! ✝️ Sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved partner. We wish you love & peace in the days ahead as our thoughts & prayers surround you with hugs.🤗

[Mike1971]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

[Yabaa]

Sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace 🙏

[Boywonder56]

In time smiles at the good memories.........

[ChuckBandChar]

My condolences.

[Lettuce231]

I'm so sorry, thank you for posting this. He's asleep now, no more worries, no pain, no stress.

My condoléances.

[Blueslover]

So sorry. God Bless you

[Bigdo58]

Very hard to loose your life partner and keep going. I did 6 years ago now, and have cancer myself. One foot in front of the other each day, is how my long passed Mum used to put it. Rings in my ears, each morning. But life is still for the living (my Dad's saying). So live it.

[Sisira]

My deepest sympathies for the loss of your husband. May he R I P 🙏.

[Big_Mcc]

So sorry to see another good warrior gone. May he RIP

[Tmetz in reply to Big_Mcc]

God’s Blessings

[john510185]

Very sorry to hear this.

[GreenStreet]

I am very sorry to hear of your loss

[msnik]

hello, I am so sorry. I looked at your husband's previous posts and see that he was diagnosed in 2017 with stage 4 . He sounds like he had a good attitude.....I am touched that he wanted to send a message. It also sounds like he may have had a sense of humor......a draw.....not sure what he means exactly but it makes me think.....he obviously put up a good fight......wishing you comfort and peace in your sorrow and your loss of your dear husband. deepest sympathy, hugs.

[Jp2sea]

Very sorry. May he rest in peace

[Daddyishealing]

My heart to you I lost my dad on the tenth ..no these men don't lose their battles . I've seen too much laughter education and joy to ever call it a loss. Ty beautiful angel for that quip just made me smile in the darkest of days .xoxo

[Warriorthree]

so sorry to hear this love wish you all the best xxx

[HikerWife]

I am so sorry. Wishing you and your family peace and strength.

[Runner1957]

I am sorry for your loss and you are so right about this forum. Personally the contact with everyone here is a great comfort and someone to talk to or to ask advice.

[Pmann]

So sorry for your loss, may he rest in Peace

[rosenjpj]

I am so sorry for your loss. He was lucky to have you on his side.

[Woofie007]

So Sorry about your loss. He was a Warrior!

[turkeyjoe1]

Sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

[Tonwantonga]

Sorry for your loss. all of us on the forum draw strength (and knowledge) from each other. take care of yourself and keep those memories of the laughs, light, and love.

[Metaldraft]

thank you for loving support and life you grew together and shared may your your heart find peace in time of need

[Drandma]

God bless you and your family

[LupronMan]

My sincere condolences to you and your family!🙏

[Omairtde]

Sincere condolences for your loss. May he rest in peace.

Look after yourself now.

[Shamrock46]

You have my prayers and heartfelt condolences. God rest his soul!

[Blueribbon63]

I am sorry your loss. He must now be pain free. May God bless you for being at his side always.

[Jmoskibike]

Y ou’ve relied on his friends posts here as well as your strength and compassion for others. In time now with close friends support and great memories may you be blessed as you go forward with strength each day.

[Rolphs]

Sorry for your loss. God Bless.

[binati]

Truly sorry to hear the news. Glad that he took the challenge and called it a draw!!

[Tally111]

Truly sorry to hear but can't help but admire his sentiments. God bless

[Currumpaw]

Devtony8,

We have done a good thing? Your husband has also done a good thing--A DRAW!!!--shows his indomitable spirit that is certainly an inspiration to many of us here! Much courage there! I will not forget how your husband viewed the scorecards.

I can feel your inner strength when reading your post. Please, when you can, care for yourself. At times family, friends and clergy can be helpful, however, there are times when we need to be alone with our memories and grief as we continue living with a significant loss.

Currumpaw

[Kiteboader]

My condolences, I know that you will see him again. People are never really done. They just go to a new place. It's better when you get to be together I'm sure of this I'm part of this because I have prostate cancer's too

Bob

[Cyclingrealtor]

May the sorrow soon be overwhelmed with great memories and gratitude to have him on this journey of life with you! 🙏🏻🩵

[Blue-Mockingbird]

I’m holding you close in my heart, sister of solace. He is free of suffering and now it’s your turn to take comfort wherever and however given. Your grief is proof that you loved him deeply; may you always feel the warmth of his love

[Hailwood]

I'm so sorry for your loss and I agree with you that this site can really help as both a support and an outlet. Another battler lost sadly.

[Rocketman1960]

I am sorry for your lose and the lose of a fellow warrior. May he rest in peace.

[Tinuriel]

All of us share your loss. May you know God's peace.

[16S4]

My condolences.

[Carlosbach]

So sorry to hear of your loss. Blessings to you and your family.

I’m glad to hear that your husband found support from this group. His being a part of our community provided support for the rest of us. Thank you for notifying us, and more importantly, thank you for all of the love and support you gave him during his illness. A loving partner and caregiver is a Godsend to those of us who have been so blessed.

[Pianodude]

Sorry for your loss. Peace to you and your family.

[Cancer2x]

Yet another star from this group blinks into existence in the dark evening skies, helping to light the way for all of us who will eventually follow.

Wishing for a peaceful transition for all those who loved him, and may the good memories be the ones that last forever.

Pax

[Yadifan]

I'm so sorry for your loss. We too rely on this site. Please know that we all mourn with you. Prayers for comfort for you and your family.

[jackcop]

As said before, sorry for your loss but, remember, he is at peace now.

[Cub49614]

🙏😢

[Berrielover]

So sorry for your loss. RIP

[GalapagosMike]

May cherished memories bring comfort to your heart during this time of loss. You're in our thoughts, and we're here for you.

[Hohman]

My Sympathies to you

[icanwintwice]

Sorry to hear it. If he felt like it was a draw thats a great attitude! And he left us all that gift. None of us want to lose. Blessings t you for passing it on. May he rest in peace…..

[Cateydid]

I’m so sorry for your loss. You were a wonderful support for him! Bless you at this sorrowful time.

[garyjp9]

Deepest sympathies for your loss. May he rest in peace.

[Devtony8]

FYI...From GFM: Tony Alston passed away this weekend. Oh, how my heart mourns. He suffered for six years with diagnosed Stage 4 Prostate Cancer. He had no overt symptoms prior to his diagnosis.

When he fell on his job, he was terminated, and of course lost his life insurance. Tony was a very proud man who Loved God. He held his head up and sought to focus on various ways to fight the cancer. He was determined to learn as much as he could, participate in cancer discussions and clinical trials. I believe that the radiation trial was what pushed his mets even more throughout his body. He would always say he's not giving up, even when nothing seemed to be working. The last ten months of his life had become unbearable. There were some really good days, but there were many bad days.

I am his wife of 22+ years and I've been deprived. I lost the love of my life, the only man who I truly loved, and who truly loved me. We became soul mates after many years. He was a selfless man; family meant everything to him. He would take off work and jeopardize his job to take care of his family. Oh how I miss and love my husband so!

When he started realizing that he had become unable to even take care of himself, it absolutely crushed his spirit. If you ever knew Tony, he's a selfless person. But when he became sick, he needed alot of help but was too proud to ask. Needless to say, we were unable to carry a life insurance policy and I'm in a pickle. I need your help to funeralize my husband.

Here's the link if you wish to help:

gofund.me/64f46125

[Jmr11820]

I’m so sorry. Peace be with you and your family.

[Yearofthecow]

So sorry for your loss

Take care

[antisocialsocialwrkr]

I am so sorry.

[yardsailor]

as I face my mortality it is all the people in my life I will leave behind I mourn for , bless you Devtony and all who loved your sweet man