Sometimes life is like a Monty Python skit. "Do you want a punch in the nose or get hit on the head with a hammer?" That's kind of where my husband is this week. He will be talking over the phone with his MO at our local hospital, a satellite of Mass General. We both need to know what to ask.
Background:
--The hospital where he received his 7th docetaxel infusion two and a half weeks ago had a couple Covid-19 patients last week and is also scrambling for masks, protective gear, etc.
--After completing the planned 6 infusions, these were the findings from scans 3/4/2020, which were being compared to scans 10/2019:
bone scan: Multifocal activity consistent with metastatic disease is overall unchanged from October, 2019. No speciic evidence of progression of bone metastic disease.
CT abdomen/pelvis & CT Chest: No new lung nodules; stable right lower lobe nodule 4mm; Multiple small hypodense hepatic lesions are minimally smaller than October, 2019. Soft tissues grossly unremarkable. Redemonstration of numberous sclerotic changes throughout the thoracic spine, ribs, and sternum.
On 3/6/2020, MO offered three options: 1. no more chemo for three months then look at scans at that time to determine next treatment 2. half dose 3. Get a 7th full dose. My husband chose the 7th dose and had it that day. (We didn't know that was going to happen so didn't do the icing. Neuropathy is mild, but did increase, so he will tell MO that.)
Given this history, and now Covid19, which we do take seriously--we know some on this board disagree--what should we ask? Our daughter sent us an e-mail from a doctor she knows about the bell curve going way up throughout April, i.e. it's of course rising now, then possibly descending. With that in mind, should a question be whether to get #8 this Friday or wait until May in order to avoid the hospital? I recall that Gregg on this board suggested from his research that #8 was a good balance between disease control and quality of life/side effect issues.
What other questions should we ask the MO about #8? Honestly, I don't even know whether the stability/not worsening was "good news" or "okay news." My husband is 75 and started out this PCa trip six years ago. He still runs a few days a week; takes big walks; but does have that deep fatigue most of you have.
Thanks so much for plowing through this wall-o-text. I know most of us are on edge about the pandemic affecting treatment. If this were early on in the chemo my husband would go for it without a break; didn't hesitate about #7. But #8 would take place in a different landscape.
We wish you well with all your decisions and getting through these uncertain days. I hope I can help some of you when relevent questions come up.