Problems with the other people

[maribux]

Hi, I am afraid to have understood one thing: I am probably afraid of the other people. I trying to understand why and I wonder if what scares me is their organisation and I do not want they organise me. Or I am afraid that their meanings are always sharp when instead I have multiple choices in my mind. Do you feel the same? Thank you

[Tim_Othy]

sounds like you don’t want the judgement of others. I understand, I don’t have anyone come into my home and am trying to get my mess under control.

[Mamamichl]

it sounds like Rejection Sensitivity Disphoria. Mine is a bit different (fear of being judged), but seeems like the same condition.

[wiggity_whack]

I'll echo the others and say that it probably is the fear of being judged, which is not uncommon I think. I certainly have it. There are days when I won't leave the house because of that fear. Unfortunately the more you avoid other people the more afraid you become! If there's a way to make yourself stop caring what other people think, well, I'd love to hear it, because that seems to be the solution AFAIK.

[MissouriCats]

You have probably spent your whole life, being judged and given negative massages about yourself. Me too.