how do you explain you care when your actions say otherwise?
this is a small example and probably a horrible one but at every turn i’m looked at as a selfish, self-centered, spoiled brat, an ingrid and the list can go for a while…
i left a shower head facing the entrance to the shower . i wasn’t thinking i just put it back after bathing my child. next morning i go in , turn the shower on and soak my face and the top of my shirt. i screamed because i was surprised to have to water spray right at me.
i bathed my daughter then put the shower head the same way i did the night before (facing the door to the entrance of the shower) husband now goes to shower and i’m not sure what happened but when he comes out he says look what you did…so you either don’t give a crap and put the shower head like you did even after you got sprayed OR you did it on purpose so it could spray in my face a a a payback because i showed no concern for the water that sprayed in your face. Either way both are bad and you’re evil and are extremely selfish.
i don’t understand how someone doesn’t learn the first time.
how do i explain that i did not do it as a payback and i did not do it on purpose. i just honestly quickly put it back because i was stressed already with bathing our daughter and trying to get ready.
this is only part 1…i will post part 2 another time .
i’m beyond sad 😔 this just feel horrible