I am a busy mom of two little kids with what feels like 1,000 responsibilities between kids, home, and work.
I can execute to perfection under the shortest deadlines in the office or create a magical holiday extravaganza overnight for my kids but I cannot seem to master the basics like taking my meds each morning, eating consistent meals, washing my face/changing out of my work clothes before bed, or getting my kids to school on time (or getting anywhere on time). Embarrassingly, I even commonly disregard the need to pee until I physically can’t any longer.
Years ago I believed that my “problems” were due to lack of motivation/laziness etc. despite my high school diagnosis and would only take my medication when in educational settings but after having kids a few years ago, I decided to educate myself, get back on medication, and now feel much more accepting of myself and my diagnosis. I no longer believe these toxic un-truths (HOORAY!) but… I still have ADHD (lol!) so my execution “problems” remain.
My father struggled his whole life with many things including bipolar disorder and unmanaged ADHD and did not seek nor receive the help he so desperately needed; he died by suicide 5 years ago. I want to take a more active approach in protecting my personal health. I was to feel confident in managing my ADHD vs feeling completely controlled by it.
How the heck do I get to a point where I’m consistently tending to my basic personal care needs and parental responsibilities? My doctor has offered additional ADHD meds but I can’t even remember to take the ones I have now with any consistency. I don’t know what tools/community/provider/resources to seek from here but I know I need more support. Advise anyone? Thx!