Hi there!
I’m new to Chadd resources and am looking to navigate the world of teenagers and ADHD! Easy right!?! Ha ha! My husband and I co-parent his oldest son who is 14. He recently spoke about wanting to kill himself over our strict rules (chores, respectful communication, outside play requirements) and screen time limits (4 hours daily.) We’re struggling with the boomerang he experiences from the different household dynamics (Bio mom does not have structure and he of course enjoys those freedoms). He’s seeing a therapist every other week and we’ve scheduled him for an emergency session and we’ve sat down with him to try and identify which of his needs are not being met as his safety and well being are our top priority. His response is unlimited screen time. I’m always willing to negotiate but we’ve already upped the screen time in the last year and we feel like 4 hours is the max we’re willing to do but it just isn’t enough. We don’t treat the suicide threat lightly but part of us feels like it’s a little bit of manipulation? We’ve shown him research on screen time and have thoroughly discussed his ADHD with him over the years, but he doesn’t care. Any advice? What are other parents doing for screen time limits? Thanks in advance