Newly diagnosed

[Boymom13]

My son has been recently diagnosed with ADHD, I had a feeling but of course needed that diagnosis. As I've learned more about ADHD his behavior makes more sense. I now have to start the process of discussing his diagnosis with his school so a 504 plan can be put into place to help him be more successful in the following years. Last year his school principal dismissed my concerns, so I was a little discouraged but I found a great doctor that has helped point me in the right direction and I feel a bit more prepared but more support and assistance is always welcome.

[compasnet]

He may be entitled to an IEP which would give him much more than the 504 plan.

[WYMom]

Just remember that it is a right you have and not a favor the school is doing for you. Be firm but polite. I'm lucky as the school has been great working with me. It's a bit like throwing spaghetti at the wall to see what sticks. Some things didn't work for my daughter but that was also because she refused to do them. Other things have brought her from bottom of the class to top. Additional time on tasks/tests and noise cancelling headphones make a world of difference. So did having her take the standardized test in the school counselor office on her big computer.

[WYMom in reply to WYMom]

I should mention my daughter is also blind in one eye so it contributes to her school difficulties. It also makes it easier for me to ask for things because no one can accuse me of being dramatic and making up her blindness. People are often dismissive of ADHD as a real thing.

[compasnet in reply to WYMom]

God bless you for being such a good advocate for her!

[BVBV in reply to WYMom]

Can I ask what noise canceling headphones your son uses?

[WYMom in reply to BVBV]

Honestly, whatever Walmart sells. We have loads. Wears them during anything loud, including fireworks. Keeps a pair in her desk at school too.

[Supermom3]

Look into an IEP plan as well. I've chosen this route for my son. His needs, his capabilities, as well as his expectations, are all spelled out. Touch base with the school department's Special Education department. They can help advocate for your sons needs.

[anirush]

Put your foot down and don't let them talk you out of anything. I.E. P's are more supportive than a 504. I had a principal talk me out of doing an IEP once and when my grandson got to middle school they asked me why he hadn't gotten an IEP sooner.

[compasnet in reply to anirush]

You are so right, anirush.

[HoldingonLou]

Speak with the special education services department. Create an IEP.