My 12 year old daughter with diagnosed ADHD and my undiagnosed husband who has anxiety get into arguments and get into shouting matches. I feel helpless. The arguments are over minor things and it just escalates so quickly that I can’t seem to be able to get either one of them to back down. My husband can not control his temper and just takes me he bait of reacting to minor things. Minor things like not giving up the iPad in the first request and trying to negotiate. He just loses it and she doesn’t back down either. Been in all kinds of therapy for soooooo long. Any thoughts?