His father and I had a tumultuous relationship, DV, and emotional and verbal abuse by both of us, all of my only child’s life ! My son is not working because he says when he applies for jobs online no one calls him back. He never talks to me about anything really so I don’t know what’s going on with him. I have him do chores for gas $ and when I tell him he didn’t finish the chores completely he thinks I’m being a perfectionist. He was also diagnosed with a planning disorder so he doesn’t write to do lists or understand doing things in order. He will tell me that he’s depressed but doesn’t tell me why... I don’t know if I’m making sense there’s just so much to say it’s a lot to write.