My son is 10 yrs old and diagnosed with ADHD and ODD (Oppositional defiant disorder). He used to be a happy, go-lucky, very social boy and he has morphed into a moody, angry, defensive "teen" who hates his family and his life. He has quit all his activities (even ones that he excelled at) He is in complete denial about his mental health challenges and refuses to go to therapy, work with state-appointed in-home therapists or take more than 2 medications. (he is taking Vyvanse, guanfacine). His psychiatrist believes that he would benefit from a mood stabilizer but he refuses to take a third medication. Any advice on how to work through this resistance to behavioral therapy and medication. He needs help but refuses because it's a reminder that there is something wrong from him. He completely breaks down (screaming, stomping, throwing things) whenever we try to talk to him in a claim manner. I would appreciate any advice from parents of ADHD/ODD kids who have lived through this hell. I have not even gone into all the other issues and how his behavior is tearing apart our family (I have 3 other kids).