Our 9 year old son is challenging to say the least. We have grown children and adopted him when he was 13 months old. We see a neuropsychologist and he is taking Adderall, Abilify, Zoloft and Clonidine. He manages to stay fairly calm during school but he often sits and does not do his work. He is very smart, but impulsive, aggressive and ODD as well as OCD. He often punches our granddaughters and seems especially jealous of the six-year-old. One of the neighborhood children is not allowed to play with him anymore because he hit her in the face. When he wants something like a treat or to do things his way, he will not give in. Our grown daughters try to help with him but it is very difficult. He's a sweet child when he is calm, but our doctor says he has a mood disorder combined with the ADHD and we are at our wits end.