I am new here. I have an 8yr old son who was diagnosed with ADHD & ODD. I am here in hopes of getting some advice as well as hearing what other individuals might be going through. My son is struggling in school as well as at home. I feel that everything I try fails. When it comes time for him to do Homework it takes at least 2 hours just to get started :-(. when he becomes frustrated, his go to words are stupid, idiot, I hate you and you guys are dum. Is there anyone else going through something similar? if so how are you handling it?