My daughter is 9.5 and she was diagnosed last year with ADHD and severe anxiety. Not only does she constantly express fears of death and many other uncontrollable events. But, she is also very quick tp become angry, violent toward everyone in our home and ditructive to property. She says horrible things to us etc. Today she was kicking me, spit in her stepfathers face and was so bad that I had to physically restrain her so she would stop acting that way. She is not on medication and I'm trying so hard to avoid that. She can be an absolute joy to be around and I frequently receive wonderful compliments from people she meets and spends time with. I fear how much further her behaviors will go before they start to get better. Advice please!