For us it's been the lack of sleep since birth. Having routine has helped our home life but it's been hard to keep it up sometimes. When I say hes ADHD to people, many are surprised but once they get to know him, if they understand it, they really get him.
Most people think disruptive and naughty child when they hear ADHD but it's not always the case. He's a fidgeter, constantly on the go and in his own head most of the time but he's a good boy, polite and kind too and I wouldn't change anything about him. I'm sure you'll all feel that way too.