My story 4 for 5 years an just feel terrible only get him in summer sum other guy is teaching him stuff

[Dc44]

I was in motorcycle wreck an they thought I was dead ha ve brain damage went thru therapy 4 years then sons mom left me an married guy in Air Force an the law let her move to Hawaii an take son with just have no clue what to do anymore

[sweetiepye]

You have had a rough time, my friend, and yet you are a survivor . That is a huge lesson for your son and if you continue to make positive improvements in your life your influence will be even larger. It is easy to give in when we are down and very difficult to move ahead. I would try to make sure and make contact with your boy at least once a week. Face to face calls on phone or computer if available , letters and cards , once in awhile a book or something he is interested in. Playing an on going game with him on line or by mail . Down play your troubles, neither one of you is in control of the situation right now , but if you establish a relationship that may change one day. Have some pre-written post cards in case you're feeling bad then you won't have to miss a week. Once started he will look forward to hearing from you and this way he won't be disappointed. I wish you well and I hope you let me know how it goes if you plan on doing something like this. Pam

[Dc44 in reply to sweetiepye]

Thank u so much for talking to me about these times supposed to be family is rough