Healthy relationship

[Mia898]

As I have a house is it possible a guy would use me? . I try to think the best of them but I save them from using me by saying the house has shares and I do not own full amount when they ask ! I have a new guy on the go but he is so different I smile and laugh real makes my day but he has been through hell it is not like dating someone who has had an ex he has been windowed so I have to be careful not to rush ! I do not want to ever replace his wife . Any advice on a healthy relationship . I do not have luck end up with alcoholics or guys with mental health issues.

[sweetsusie]

There are many, many frogs out there, Mia898....just be watchful and do not give your heart easily. I'm 72 years old and I would NEVER, EVER have another relationship with a man...I'm not good at judging them...always give the benefit of the doubt, which you actually should never do. They're just not worth it in the long run. I wasted my life on them....

[Mia898 in reply to sweetsusie]

Thank you . So your advice is do not give them the benefit of the doubt?

I want a healthy relationship but I just feel some guys out there well I just do not know being honest .

[sweetsusie in reply to Mia898]

Look...I know I'm a bitter old woman...but looking back, I could've done so much more with my life had I not wasted it on men. You go for it...for many people find each other and are happy (supposedly) with their relationships. Me...no thanks! Good luck....

[Mia898 in reply to sweetsusie]

There is more to life than wasting on guys who do not love you for the right reasons but I want to see if I can find someone .