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[Conroy]

Hello I'm new i lost my mama 2 year ago and i am not coping at all every days a struggle sick empty feeling in my stomach. So i look in mirror n a cry coz a look ill you can see my veins more am feeling so skinny like I'm actually dying. Also got carpels tunnel and the worst is the pain in my top of my chest as if somebody is pushing on it i look at my ribs just under my chest it is not straight 1 bone comes down to the other gos up am scared please help oh also i ended up in hospital because i was numb from lips to knees

[moreless Administrator 7 stone]

I'm so sorry to hear this, Conroy, but we are not qualified to help you, as this is just a peer to peer support group for weight loss.

I would urge you to approach your GP/medical professional and/or a friend/relative to help you at this very upsetting time.

Grief affects us all in different ways and there is a Bereavement Care and Share forum here on Health Unlocked Maybe they would be able to help you more? healthunlocked.com/bereavem...

Please don't continue to struggle alone, reach out to all that can offer you both practical and emotional guidance.

Wishing you all the very best for the future.

[Conroy in reply to moreless]

Oh i do apologise and thank you very much means a lot a need to goto doctoes

[moreless Administrator 7 stone in reply to Conroy]

No apology necessary. I hope you can find the support that you need

[Binky68 Visitor in reply to Conroy]

Conroy - look at the other healthunlocked pages to see if there’s one that better suits - this is weight loss xxx

[Tiggerr]

I hope you get to the doctor's soon Conroy and that you can get the help that it appears you need.

Good luck!

[sunny369 Restart Dec 2023]

I am so sorry to hear you are suffering like this and scared. Please speak to your doctor, and if one doctor doesn't help try another doctor. I speak from personal experience when I say that following a major bereavement I had a whole bunch of weird and unpleasant physical symptoms and some medication from the doctor and a lot of patience helped, until eventually felt physically better (even though sometimes I am still sad) My doctor also recommended bereavement counselling which might also be worth considering. If you search bereavement on Health Unlocked you might find another group too (as this one is weight loss group so might not be the most relevant for you) Wishing you better x

[PandQs Maintainer 3st 7lbs]

Hi Conroy, I agree with the others that you need to ask for professional help, but alongside that there might be another group on this website more suitable to give you moral support along the way. Losing your mum is one of the worst days of anyone’s life. I lost mine suddenly when I was in my late 20s and it took a long time to get through all the different stages of bereavement. Even now decades later, I can still find myself suddenly bursting into tears if a memory or something catches me unawares and brings the pain back. But please know that it does get easier over time and the happy memories will eventually outweigh the pain of losing her.