I have found myself standing on the scales recently thinking what happened? when did i get so big? why have I let it get so out of control?
Found myself doing the usual -
joining the gym - check
Buying loads of healthy food - check
Joining weight watchers - check
So far I haven't stepped inside the gym, most of the food went in the bin and of course went to one weigh in class at WW
My weight gain is not only effecting my health but also my marriage now (even though my husband does says all the right things) I see how I look and I know he loves me but hes not blind.
My self esteem and confidence has hit such a low point. I am now scared to make the changes that need to happen in my life because I have let my body get so out of shape.
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Welcome hutchy88 so many of us here could have written that check list for you, plenty of people will identify with what you have written. However, so many people will tell you about their amazing journeys and that it is all worthwhile. Small steps and build on them.
I would like to invite you to join our Newbie Club, which we hope will be a good place for you to connect with members, who are also just starting out, or re-starting.
If you just post a few words on the September Newbie Club thread to introduce yourself and respond to others there you will soon feel part of the club.
Oh, you're writing how I felt last year. It's terrible. Welcome in our midst. You will find a bunch of friendly people that is fighting their way to a new life. Just take it step by step. Before you know you will be amazed at your progress. Please join the Newbie Club. You can read there how our forum works and how to make the best use of it.
I can totally relate to your post, these are all the things i have gone through in the past.
You can do this and you will feel so much better within yourself and your confidence and self esteem will be so much better.
You will receive fantastic support and friendly advice here, and are never on your own, as we are all going through the same journey
Wishing you all the best
I feel embarrassed with my husband as well. They love us no matter what but I agree, they are not blind. All you can do is give it your all and see what happens. Good luck to you.
Don't worry about your husband, us men like a bit of meat on the bone! (Spoiler alert, even most of the ones who say they dont really do). Love matters more than shape or wobbliness anyway. Have some confidence in yourself, and good luck 😁
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