Hi ladies, my first time on here and I literally feel like crap and just don't know what to do anymore. My entire life I was completely healthy and used to have a period every 3 and a half weeks until I got to 23. I ballooned in size, my hair started thinning, I had facial hair and my periods had become irregular. I am now 28 going to be 29 in 6 months. I've been married for 3 years and have been TTC ever since. I'm from an Asian background and they expect you to pop as soon as you're married. I've had to deal with horrible aunts at weddings and events asking what happened to me as I used to be so slim and make me feel like a circus freak. They constantly say im not pregnant coz I'm fat. I have been pushing my gp for answers as I'd become fed up with either no period or super heavy ones or spotting that would go on for 6 weeks which they'd always prescribe noretherzone for. I had an external ultrasound years ago and they said they'd found nothing but my blood results showed I was insulin resistant so I pushed and pushed and finally met with a gyno 9 months ago who wasn't very helpful and made me cry. After 8 years of being lost he finally confirmed with an internal ultrasound that I had PCOS and was insulin resistant. My right ovary is enlarged and I have cysts on both. My only concern was whether I ovulate or not to which he replied to pretend everything was frozen and focus on weight loss not babies. I was heart broken. I met with him yesterday and have lost 4kg. He prescribed me metformin for 6 months and did another ultrasound and randomly came out with "I don't think you ovulate" with no explanation, he discharged me and advised I see my gp for fertility treatment which broke my heart. All my husband and I want is a baby. I've had him tested and his sperm count is low but ok for IVF apparently. I've read forums on here and put him on Vit c and zinc tabs. I just feel like my life's over and have no idea what to do. I have struggled with my weight for the past 7 years now and am sick of all my relatives and friends asking why I'm not pregnant yet. I am so frustrated with spotting that doesn't stop from being emotional and from feeling like I'll never have a baby.can anyone help me or relate? Are there any tests to deffo confirm I don't ovulate as strips won't work because I'm irregular. Also what treatments and steps are out there if I don't ovulate. I just don't know what to do anymore. I am completely disheartened and feel like it's over for me.