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Shelby update on health and her future

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Hi ladies. I have tried to update you all over the last few

months but was finding it hard to find the proper words. My health has deteriorated over the last few months from my stay at the hospital the lung Infection. The blood clots I ended up with so I give myself daily shots in my stomach. My husband and I ended with covid I was taking radiation at the time and that is where they though we caught it as we did not go anywhere else . So we stopped the radiation and will return if pain in the radiated area gets worse . In the meantime my oncologists got the pet scan results back and has decided to stop all treatment going forward and use the pain management group to control the discomfort. I'm using a wheelchair now and feel the pain and electricity running up and down both legs. She told me that there are so many holes in my bones now they will start breaking down . I'm really hoping to enjoy the spring but only God knows now . i will still stay active on the forum as some of you I feel very close to and I hope all of your health improves over time

Take care all of you

Shelby

By the way my name is Shelley

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jersey-jazz

Dear ShelleyInstead of a bunch of words, I send lots of hugs, kisses and prayers. I am vey glad that you have your husband at your side. Here's to a comfortable state of affairs and a good Spring and Summer!

XXX OOO

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MyMiracle13

Shelley I will offer prayers for you and lots of warm hugs as well. Only God knows how long we have so let’s leave everything up to Him.

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Iwasborntodothis

No words Shelley just prayers and love

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BangorBelle56

Sending live andhugs x

Shelley, sending you love and lots of prayers that your quality of life will now improve with adequate pain manager. I sincerely hope the spring weather where you live is of great comfort and will be re-energizing. 🤗

Anja

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Sunnydrinking

Dear Shelley

I truly hope you enjoy Spring.

Very best wishes.

Jo xx

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Rotagirl

Dear Shelley, thinking of you on this so difficult path. Wishing you peace and love around you. Fay

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Joannaaaa

Hi Shelly sending good wishes your way for a lovely spring, love and hugs to you too

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Pbsoup

Hi Shelley

Thanks for your honesty and courage. I hope that you start to recover more quality of life and are able to enjoy the spring with your husband.

XoP

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BluHydrangea

Shelley— I’m so sorry you have had to deal with Covid on top of radiation and all you are going through. I hope Spring provides a bit of hope and joy for you. Hugs to you and your hubby. Keep posting....❤️❤️❤️

Dear Shelley - such a traumatic, exhausting series of events for you. I’m terribly sorry for your pain and your concerns.

I sincerely hope you can receive more pain relief. This is such a difficult journey we are on. Please know that you have my prayers and compassion.

We are here for you.

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stardust1965

Dear ShelleyThank you for sharing what you’ve been dealing with lately. I hope the focus on your pain management will work for you. I found these little beauties in my garden a few days ago so spring is on its way. Sending gentle hugs. Vicki

Spring is on its way.

Shelley what a terrible time you and your husband have gone through recently, I am so sorry. I hope the Spring can help you get some strength back and that pain eases. Thank you for keeping everyone up to date, that was a brave post.Sending prayers and hugs to you and your husband

Clare x

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Timtam56

Sending you love and light.

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AvidBooklover

Here's to controlling the pain and seeing something beautiful each spring day. So sad that these last months have been so hard for you. xx

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8576

Thanks for keeping us up to date. What a lot to deal with. No wonder you had trouble writing. You seem to be very strong. Hope they can regulate the pain meds and get you some comfort. Sending you good wishes and vibes. Take care,

Cheers, June S.

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Totheriver

Oh Shelby, willpray that your pain will be managed and that you may enjoy the spring and summer with your hubby and family. Sending hugs❤️Theresa

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Red71

Sending you prayers, love , and hugs. I hope spring reenergizes you and allows you to have more feelings of calm . Let the pain med specialists do their thing so you can enjoy this period of life awakening around us. I pray that your body needs this period of rest so that it can go back to fighting the good fight for you. ❤️ Elain

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Djd60

So very sorry, can’t even imagine facing this but we are all in this together like one big family, my prayers are with you and your family right now, God Bless you !

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SeattleMom

Hello, Shelley,

So sorry to read your post. You have truly tried everything (and then some) to beat this monster. May God shine His light on you and grant you peace and comfort. Prayers for your husband too. You are blessed to have him in your life.

Linda

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JPutt

Sending you love and hugs x

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Gingerann1

Shelley, may God give you and your husband peace and that you enjoy the Spring season. Thank you for your courage to post your update and know that all of us are sending you a warm embrace...

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Andibo

Sending love to you.

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mariootsi

Shelley,Sending love, hugs and prayers!

Love,

Marianne

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Susanita10

Shelby, thank you for sharing. I shall keep you in my daily thoughts and prayers. I shall send you positive vibes, always. I am new to this forum and I hope I can lift your spirits too. ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕

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Aquadog

Dear Shelley, what a lot you're dealing with. I sure hope they can give you some relief from the pain. So much easier to deal with the other stuff when you're not in pain. BTW, I totally understand about the electricity up and down the legs. In fact, you described that perfectly. I've tried to tell my doc about it, but couldn't explain very well.

Wishing you a beautiful spring and sending gentle hugs

Susan

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debbiedo2063

ShelleySending hugs and prayers to you and your family.

Debra❤️

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Lnlc

Shelley -- sending prayers and warm thoughts. Ellen

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Topood

Thinking of you, and hoping your Spring is as lovely as ours is starting out to be! Your courage and strength shine through your message.....I will be thinking of you and your husband....

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Beryl71

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Xx

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Dogmomtocockers

Praying for you! I know this is all so difficult to absorb.

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Cowgirl1951

Shelley, You have been through so much. Prayers that God will make you strong. Enjoy the spring. I hope you can feel me as I wrap my arms around you in prayer. Hugs, Kay

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AnnaP668

Dear Shelley, I am so sorry. Keep looking up, smile when you can and get a look at those Spring time blessings. Sending love, hope and very gentle hugs.Ann

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viennagirl

Dear Shelley,

Don't give up hope. Do as much research on bone loss as you can. Perhaps there is something that can restore your bones. Spring is on the way. Find a sunny spot to put a lounge chair and get as much sun as you can tolerate. It might start a healing process. If you have privacy - sun bathe without much clothing. I also have osteoporosis so hope to get some sunshine too. It might help you and I hope it helps me too. My prayers and good wishes and my heart go out to you. Hugs Marlene

Hi Shelley,

I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you. I hope that there are a lot of options for you to help manage your pain. Hopefully there is also something that can be done to help strengthen your bones and protect them from any further damage.

Take care,

Sophie 🌷

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Teddielottie

Thinking of you Shelley x ❤️

Spring
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love2golfwell

I am so very sorry for what you are going through. Along with others on this site, I offer you hugs and prayers. I hope you will be able to enjoy the spring and that your doctors will be able to provide comfort for you.

My thought are with you , I hope your pain management is quick & effective . Luann

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hurricaneheather

it makes the heart sad to read this. keeping you in my thoughts. sending you golden light. may you be at ease.

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Loriterranova

I'm so sorry u r in discomfort. I pray that a regimen to relieve your pain is enacted soon! Prayers and a big hug sent to u!Lori

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Mindysooty

Hi Shelley, so sorry to hear this. Sending hugs and kisses your way. X

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Shelby4now

Thank you all for the wonderful support and comforting words and prayers you have sent me. All I can say the tears did not stop for sometime after reading your responses . Sorry it took me so long As I have had a few more issues rises up . I have been having pain in my frontal lobe area nose and jaw over the last few weeks . Does anyone know the difference between brain Mets and skull mets . Can you use radiation for pain control in the skull or brain ????????. I have an appointment with the pain management team on April 7 I. can't wait to see them .!! Take care to you all stay safe all the best Shelby❤️

I’m with Sandra. Too often, we’ve been through so much with MBC that we think we can trudge along when some symptoms actually require prompt attention.

I’ve occasionally found myself underplaying a symptom. I then ask myself what I’d tell a friend who told me she had such a symptom.

Stepping back like that reminds me there are essential times that shouldn’t wait for the next appointment.

Please call them and make it very clear how much pain you are experiencing. Push to be seen ASAP. Pain relief is too important to postpone.

Good luck. Please keep us posted.

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