Hi all We did it . We got married. I have been with Ray for just under 17 years. He has been with me since the being of our journey. He has been my support and strength over the last 10 years. How this started I became ill the beginning of December. I had a low grade fever just 39.8 and a little short of breath. I thought I best go to check in at the hospital to make sure all was well. Eight days later I was released from the hospital. I had two blood clots in my right lung and pneumonia in my left. By the way I do have advance mbc with only one option now is IV chemo. Why I'm sharing this story with you is because I do not want you to go through what I did. At no time did I feel ill, so when my doctor held my hand and said that I may not make it to Christmas I was in shock. Please , please when you have any doubt check with your doctor. We had a fantastic wedding day with the family. We all wore masks until the pictures were taken and enjoyed a small snack with a wedding cake . It was everything that I could have wished for . My son and daughter did it all for us, after I expressed my wishes when I was sick.....not sure why we didn't do this years ago....
Take care Stay safe
Happy New Years 2021
Shelby
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Congratulations, you both look happy and beautiful! I wish you an even longer time together than you already have experienced! No one should be telling us when our time ends. It ends when we quit and you don’t look like you are ready to do that yet!
So true .... My mind is willing my body is getting a little tired. Lol..... It's over 10 years from the onset of mbc ... I just need to pay more attention to signs...
You look radiant . Many congratulations and thanks for sharing this uplifting story... Not only were you around at Xmas but you also manage to find the strength to go ahead with what sounded like a perfect experience full of memories with your loved ones.
Congratulations. What a lovely couple. Thank you so much for sharing x
Hi Shelby,
Congratulations to you and Ray on your wedding! You both look so happy. I think it’s sweet that your dog played a role in your big day too. I wish you many years of happiness together.
Sophie 🌷🌺🌹🥀🎉
Many congratulations. You look so happy!🙂. Best wishes to you both x
Omigosh What a beautiful couple you are, and what a delightful life and celebratory day you and your children created. Your love and care shines out from that photo.. Thank you so much for sharing this smile creating photo.
Congratulations on your marriage. You two make a gorgeous couple. May you enjoy each other for many more years❤️Anja
Your wedding story has made my day. What a wonderful beginning to 2021. Felicitations! You both are glowing with happiness, and my heart smiles. Shucks, I am such a romantic. ❤️ Kate from Alabama
Wonderful! You both look so happy. Glad you proved the doctor wrong. How on earth do they come up with these predictions. I guess they think they are being helpful? Wishing you well.Cheers, June S.
Just want to add you look so lovely and you look so elegant in your white stole and perky hat! (I know there is a name for those cute hats but can't remember)
What a beautiful bride! Ray looks like the cat that got the cream in that picture. Congratulations to the new Mr. And Mrs. You both look so genuinely happy. Thanks for sharing xxx
Congratulations to you and Ray! So happy you were able to celebrate this special day with your family. Love the picture of both of you with your cute pug! I, too, hope that you will have many more years together. Prayers for you.
What a wonderful response. I really hesitated to share the part about the doctor but sharing is knowledge when you are faced with a medical challenge. Thanks again
You look radiant in your picture and Ray looks quite handsome. Your dog being included warms my heart as I am a dog lover. I wish you both much happiness and peace for many more years. ❤️
Thanks to all of you for your wonderful responses to our wedding day. I can't thank you enough. It was a great day and I sure loved the tux for Lincolin.....bought by my son in law ... The hat given to me by my daughter... and the shawl was from my son. These gifts left a sparkle in
Congratulations and the vey best of wishes for a continued loving life together! You both look handsome, beautiful and relaxed. Is you moniker of Shelby4now a hint made before the marriage occurred or amI reaching too far?
Well my name is Shelley. I noticed when I joined a lot of people did not use their names so I always liked the car Shelby . So that is how Shelby4now was made. The story is a little borrowing
I just now am seeing your post . This picture is full of light , love and beauty that jumps out off the screen. Thank you for sharing and I wish for you many more days ahead… ❤️❤️❤️
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