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Well my daughter got married this weekend. It was perfect! There’s not one thing I would change if I had it to do over. I really can’t believe it came off so well. The weather was amazing. (71 degrees F in December.)

When I was diagnosed with this dreadful disease this was one life moment that I was afraid I would miss. I made it. Now I will set another milestone date to meet. I have another daughter that I want to see get married. And I can’t wait to have some grand babies.

I just wanted to share a picture of my beautiful daughter on her wedding day.

The ferns in the back are mine that I put at our church. They are the only plants I’ve ever been able to make live. Haha. That’s the court yard in front of our fellowship hall. I had white poinsettias put out in the flowerbeds. I’ll share a picture later this week of our little family church. It was just beautiful too.

Sending you all warm Christmas wishes from South Georgia.

Stacy

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Mindysooty

Oh thats wonderful. Congratulations all round. Your daughter is stunning. Best wishes. X

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MyMiracle13

Just perfect! I am just so happy that you were able to see your daughter get married. And now for the grandkids...

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Staysha in reply to MyMiracle13

Can hardly wait. I hope it happens on the honeymoon!

Hi Stacy,

Thank you so much for sharing. Your daughter looks beautiful! What a wonderful milestone to get to see your daughter get married. I’m sure you will get to enjoy many more blessings.

Take care,

Sophie

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Thank you Sophie.

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breezie

Hi Stacy,

What a beautiful picture! Your daughter looks stunning and the setting is perfect. I am so glad the day went well and you have such happy memories. Here's to all future happiness ❤

Sue

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Staysha in reply to breezie

Thank you so much.

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Amm1

What a beautiful bride! Delighted you had a lovely day. Hope you have many more happy days and years ahead.

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Staysha in reply to Amm1

Thank you.

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hdhonda

You have a beautiful daughter. Glad the weather was perfect. Merry Christmas to you and your family. Blessings, Hannah

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Staysha in reply to hdhonda

Love your sign off “ Blessings”. I feel like I’ve been on this board for so long. Your sign off is so familiar to me it’s “plum” comforting. Thank you for your sweet comment.

She looks stunning and so happy. Yes setting another mile stone sounds great!

Wonderful! She looks fabulous. Your ferns are a lovely backdrop. I’m so glad you enjoyed this milestone

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Rotagirl

Such a beautiful daughter. Thankyou so much for sharing that special occasion. Love Fayx

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Teddielottie

A beautiful picture of your daughter ... so happy for you all ! x

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kduck

Beautiful

Beautiful & congratulations Stacy & family! ❤️🙏❤️

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Staysha in reply to hopenowandtomorrow

Thank you so much.

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Staysha

Thank you so much Sandra.

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Barbteeth

Hi StayshaYou have a stunningly beautiful daughter...so pleased the day went well

My younger daughter got married last September (2019) and I fretted for months before as I wasn’t well but it turned out really super

My friend has a daughter who has had a baby and I would love one of my girls to have one...my other girl has been married 3years...I was surprised how jealous (almost in a nasty way) of my friend I am and it’s not like me but I really doubt I’ll be around for that event and every time I think of what I’ll miss I burst into tears so I admire your positive attitude and want to be more like that but find it difficult to imagine ...you’ve made me think!

All the best

Barb

Xx

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Staysha in reply to Barbteeth

Barb,

I’m so glad you commented. You are one of the first to “draw” me in on this board. I remember seeing the picture of you and your daughter on her wedding day. I think I was jealous of you that day. You looked so beautiful and so did she.

I am doing pretty well for the moment to the point I think most of my family and friends have forgotten what I have. I actually am glad about that. I hate thinking about cancer. It makes me mad then I burst into tears. Typing this is actually making me tear up.

I think we are all sad. You’re not alone in that thinking. It is what it is. I try to “make it” from one moment to the next. As I was wrapping presents I wonder if I’ll be here next year. My best friends daughter (my god daughter) is getting married next Christmas. Will I be there to help her like she helped me? As I say things like that my mind always goes there... will I be here?

I guess we just have to live for the moment and enjoy what we’ve been given.

I hope you enjoy Christmas this year and I pray we are all here to enjoy Christmas next year.

Your friend,

Stacy

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Justme153

Your daughter is BEAUTIFUL! So glad everything went well! Now Enjoy the Holidays!!

What a beautiful picture. I love the greenery and the lace - perfect. Here’s to enjoying those grand babies when they comeClare x

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love2golfwell

Your daughter is just beautiful and I am so happy for you and your family to be able to have this special day. I hope you will meet all of your milestones. I, too, am hoping to be able to see my son get married at sometime in the future and enjoy time with grandchildren.

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AvidBooklover

Sooooo beautiful....thank you for sharing this special day!!!

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Lina-61

Wow congratulations to you all your daughter is very beautiful

Lina61

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ChrisVict

How beautiful! How lucky you are. Really happy for you. I really can relate I have 2 daughters 20 and 22 I would be so grateful to be at their wedding!

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Thatflowerlady

Your daughter is beautiful and the setting looks amazing . I am looking forward to seeing more pictures. I am a bit of a wedding enthusiast, being a florist for 25 years it gets in your blood lol. I am so glad that you were feeling well and participated in the planning fun.

Luann

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8576

So lovely. So happy for you that you got to be there for the celebration. I am with you on wishing a baby grandchild soon! If they only knew how we mothers commiserate! Sending lots of good wishes,

Cheers, June S.

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SeattleMom

What a beautiful bride! And beautiful memories!! So happy for you! The setting for this photo is so lovely! Can’t wait for wedding photo of your second daughter! God bless you, Stacy! 🙏🏻🙏🏻💗💗

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mariootsi

Stacy, your daughter is so beautiful. So happy for you that you enjoyed such a wonderful day!

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PLASEM

Your daughter is beautiful and I am glad that her weeding had nice weatherMerry Christmas to you and your family

Congratulations. She is beautiful.

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AnnaP668

Beautiful!

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Kaydub

So beautiful! And so wonderful to have a joyous occasion to celebrate these days. Hope the grandkids are not far after! My kids are much younger, one in middle school and one in high school. My immediate goal is to make it at least until they both graduate high school. When I get there, we’ll think further ahead. If I think too far ahead, the fear and sadness start to come up. Have to admit I’m so happy for you but a bit jealous too.

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Staysha in reply to Kaydub

Thank you. And just keep planning those graduation parties.

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Corgi3

What a happy event in this trying year! Your daughter is beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing w/us! So happy for you!Congratulations!

❤ Bev

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JPutt

How lovely. I am so glad it was perfect. And what a beautiful photograph.

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Adele_Julia

Stacy,

Besides your daughter's wedding picture, there is no doubt she is as lovely and beautiful inside and out as you are. My daughter is 23 and I brag " Yep, I made that" Praise God for this memory. I saw my daughter graduate with her Masters "online". Nothing like seeing your daughter roll across stage in an Ipad with wheels. LOL

I'm new to this board with the dreadful disease as well. I'm 56. One thing we have in common is I live in Arizona and all my ferns are fake !!! For some reason, I can't even keep my fake plants alive but we do have many cactuses. Be very proud of every moment and don't forget to laugh.

Heart hugs to you and your GORGEOUS daughter. Merry Christmas to boot.

Blessings !

Julia

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Shelby4now

Thank you for sharing this moment with us. She is beautiful.

Take care be safe

Shelby

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