I am a fit healthy male. I was sexually abused as a young boy, and since then I have had a fear of ejaculation and orgasm so I don't do it. I love sex though. I am very spiritual and I like to make love. As a partner would you be ok with me not releasing?
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Would you mind if I didn't cum?
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No, not at all. Why would I? I personally would accept you as you are. Or it means I'm more interested into molding you in what I think you should be. Find a genuine, kind, accepting person, not a selfish, superficial one.
My only concern for you, would be that its a problem not a choice, like Tantric Sex. So I would advise therapy in your own time. Its terrible that happened to you too. I understand what you are going through.
The one major problem will be if as a couple, you want biological children from you. So worth trying to address it.
I hope you find the love you deserve.
Blessings.
• in reply toAnnunnaki
Thank you for your kind message, I do find it difficult and frustrating, I ache a lot and feel full much of the time, but I do enjoy love making.
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Pleasure is mine. Then why don't you speack to your doctor to see a psychologist or therapist specialising in sexuality? In UK you can self refer in some areas.
Blessings.
Quem quer te lo como companheiro precisa compreender seus traumas e aceitar as condições sendo assim eu seria uma pessoa compreensiva quanto a isso.
Nao se sabe quando voce tem de saber aceitar pois pode no futuro ter de ser aceito.
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• in reply toHamud976431
obrigado, e, embora eu ache muito em meus testículos e eu me sinto frustrado e cheio , eu gosta de sexo .
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