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Do I need to have sex to make my foreskin stretch back... it feels a lil tight sometimes..

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Zapphirre

I've read articles where it says that if the foreskin doesn't stretch back enough then the person may suffer from pain during sex... Am not getting any positive thoughts about my penis at the moment...

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I had a tight foreskin and ended up being circumcised in my 40’s. I had lots of sex. It was just too tight.

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Zapphirre in reply to GeejayMN

So I can't have good sex until I go like 40 ??!

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timmyboy20 in reply to Zapphirre

You can have sex with a tight foreskin but it probably will hurt and that's not the purpose of sex. If you already have tried the stretching method and it didn't work, you better get yourself circumcised. I had the same, did also do the stretchings but eventually ended up circumcised. No regrets, I'm glad I did it. It feels and looks great now.

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Zapphirre in reply to timmyboy20

Well practically I didn't do the stretching thing 4 times a day... It feels irritating to hold your skin and stand still for 300 seconds...😐😑

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timmyboy20 in reply to Zapphirre

But even if you did so I really doubt if it would be successful. The members of the anti-circumcision movement proclaim that it would solve our problem but I tried it and it didn't work at all for me. And now I'm circumcised I'm very glad it didn't work because being circumcised is great.

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Zapphirre in reply to timmyboy20

How much did it cost including medicines

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timmyboy20 in reply to Zapphirre

It depends on where you're living. Are you in the UK or elsewhere?

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Zapphirre in reply to timmyboy20

India

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timmyboy20 in reply to Zapphirre

I am not sure but I've read that a circumcision performed in a private clinic in India costs £ 300 average.

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Zapphirre in reply to timmyboy20

300 euro is around 25k here...

I think I can live without sex...

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timmyboy20 in reply to Zapphirre

Is there no one who could sponsor you? How old are you? If you go to the public health care, it's for free.

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Zapphirre in reply to timmyboy20

20

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fondrees in reply to Zapphirre

U dont have to. People been having sez since day one, unc8rcumcised.

I tried stretching but 4 times a day is not possible... Really tight schedule

Please believe what timmyboy says. The only permanent cure is to have a circumcision and I think you will simply have to find a doctor and ask the cost. You do need to be able to retract the foreskin [for hygiene if nothing else] so that the whole of the glans is visible and the foreskin must slide freely. It is possible that if you cannot and push back the foreskin and it gets stuck behind the glans it will be an emergency. There are two alternatives. There is said to be a cream that will relax the ring of tissue at the end. It may work. The other alternative is what is referred to as a "dorsal slit". The doctor simply gives you a local anaesthetic in the top of the penis and makes a slit in the foreskin on the top looking down. It certainly works but is very ugly and the foreskin flaps around!

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Zapphirre in reply to 3simon

Okay.... Am actually looking for that steroid cream.. if I ask the local chemist would it be beneficial?