Male Anorgasmia

[calif2018]

I’ve been through multiple health issues that impacted my life. After prostate removal years ago, I had lost the ability to orgasm and ejaculate. Unfortunately, my doctors were unable to help me. This is beyond frustrating. I still have desire but I can’t feel anything for relief. I just cry. I just want to feel some pleasure again. I’m in therapy, but I wished I could orgasm again. Doctors feel I might not get it back. It’s so hard to deal with.

[jaglad]

This must be awful for you. I am sorry I cannot give you any practical help other than to say do not give up. Keep researching, there may be something out there that can help you.

Best of luck.

[calif2018 in reply to jaglad]

Thank you for writing to me. I sometimes just want to talk to someone. I can’t explain how it feels to be sexually broken. I just end up crying. Hope my doctor will find someone to help me.

[jaglad]

It cannot compare, but waiting six weeks for sex following a circ' Op was a nightmare for me. You must keep trying and researching.

Are there any counsellors you can speak to ?

[calif2018 in reply to jaglad]

Sadly, I haven't been able to find help from my doctors. It's so hard to deal with. I do have a sex therapist, but my issues are phyiscal as well. I fear that I will never get help.

[calif2018]

Research? It's shocking that there are very limited information and even less in terms of help out there. I admit, I cry alot.

[calif2018]

Thank you for your help. I have seen a few specialist for help. The TURP did affect things for a few months. You have covered alot. I have been treated for pelvic floor dysfunction. I did have normal (well, I think it's normal), orgasms. Now, can't get there no matter how much everything is perfect. I'm in therapy for both trying to find other ways of feeling pleasure. I can't watch porn and the hardest is watching a guy cum. I missed feeling it. Its been more than a couple years since having an orgasm. My doctor had thought that I could get an orgasm by masturbating, but I have none. Please feel free to connect with me if you find something. Or, just talking to you helps. Thank you!